It's not about being at the "mercy" of women or their current state / predicament -- it's about recognizing your own value and not wasting time trying to "game" or "convince" a disinterested woman of your value. Who has time for that shit?

OP, who do you think will readily make himself vulnerable? To be vulnerable is to be real. It's polarizing. A person who does not value himself will not be readily vulnerable, for he seeks approval from others.

It's because you value yourself and your own beliefs about yourself above all else that you make yourself fully "vulnerable," putting your true self out there in spite of rejection. You don't care about the rejection because your self-worth isn't determined by someone else -- you always share yourself freely.

That is vulnerability. It's not a "technique" that you pull out every now and then. It's not about using it to find sexual partners. It's about being who you really are.

That includes your physical desires as well -- escalation, for example. It's about being honest and congruent with your desires and intentions.

Vulnerability is not about revealing a deep or embarrassing secret in your attempt to game her -- that's outcome-seeking behavior, i.e. neediness. Vulnerability is simply being true to who you are because it is an expression of your truth -- it has nothing to do with her.

Being true to yourself? GaaaaaY!

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All pick up books are useless.
Its like reading about how to draw a decent picture. It comes with practice not theory

Sure, if you want to repeat the same mistakes that others have already made. The issue is not in pickup books but rather using reading as a means to delay action.

Yeah, and how nobody learns chemistry by reading...oh wait.

Reading is good, the more you know and reading rainbow and all that. As usual, the pickup community took a good idea in "you have to practice, you can't just read," and they turned it into "reading is for nerds."

Also, my pick is gunwitch seduction mma program.

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The problem is dating is not chemistry or physics. You can learn mathematics from books but you won't find a ton of mathematics books saying 2+2 = 7. There are too many scammers, anyone can publish a PDF and there's an overload of information...most of it just hype.

Except there is a structure. Guys are trying too hard to be zen masters instead of engineers.

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But there is no clear structure...that's why reading past a point leads to paralysis by analysis. The information is so polarizing...like if an author prefers direct his entire book is based on direct. And vice versa. You have guys reading about sexual techniques when they have approach anxiety and can't hold a conversation. If you have a sticking point sure go read a chapter in a book and practice. But you don't need to read past a chapter at a time to get the information you need that relevant to where you are and apply that. Like working out. You want to work on your arms...you don't need to read past a few arm exercises, implement the workout and come back when you plateau.

I'm talking about answering a question honestly, if asked, whenever possible, even if the truth is kind of embarrassing.

Be honest, but as you know, in seduction, the sin of omission can actually play in your favor. You can be honest in your display of your human side, but ultimately your reputation is your brand, i.e. you never want to lower your value, so you tell the story honestly but always in a way that puts you in a good light by the end.

I'm curious as to what kind of stories you are telling your women.

can you give a example of a embarrassing story, but keeping reputation intact?I just dont use those stories.

Hi there
Here are some books that I ve read lastly before I was very into RSD (Real Social Dynamics) it was like : proactivity escalate quickly don t miss the opportunity be a man call her "dog" be assertive...lead lead lead...etc...and those last books that I had read gave a more cool style to my game...
■ The natural by Richard La Ruina
Even If it s a classic If you haven t read it it s cool Richard la Ruina is known for his effective and secretive physical game
■ How to be a 3% of a man by Corey Wayne
This is a great book the only part that I don t like is it talks about relationship game but not all the time I mean what I learned from this book is just huge even If it is not one night stand oriented I realy recommend it
■ CIA tactics to get women by Gary Brodsky
It s not the best pick up book but it gave me very valuable information on how to inflience women there is even suddle NLP stuff in it...Even If the book is sometimes funny and kinda crazy it s worth reading I realy learned a lot...