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| phorm | PostPosted: Sat Mar 03, 2007 9:53 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Tue Feb 27, 2007 1:09 am Posts: 72 | | Hey guys. I'm just learning. This girl lived in another state but she called me because she's f'ing crazy. I met her on the internet and for some reason she liked me so much that she called me.
Anyway, this is the exact kind of girl that I have trouble with. She's like really domineering. I think Neil Strauss or one of the other PUA's called it "Stealing the frame" where the girl is testing me constantly and trying to walk all over me. Well, she succeed in walking all over me last night. I screwed up. I was just practicing basically and since she was paying for the call.....why not.
Everything I said seemed to be a way to turn it into a negative on me. Unless I was telling her that I had a million dollars in the bank, she was nailing me to the wall. Pretty soon I was even helping her do it. I need to work on standing up to these kinds of girls. They are bullies basically. I guess I need to realize that if she is starting to walk all over me.....I pretty much lost already so I shouldn't worry about offending her. I'm going to think of some things to say to girls like this to put them in their place. Any suggestions?
She tested me on drug use. She had done more drugs than I had. lol. She had more education than I had. She was working on her masters. She was still in college. I'm 5 yrs older than her, though. I found myself constantly saying "yeah...uh huh..." to her. I know it was wrong to be that passive but I had nothing to say to some of the crazy ideas that were coming out of her mouth. I guess I couldn't relate to her.
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| Sim | PostPosted: Tue Mar 06, 2007 12:22 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Wed Feb 21, 2007 12:54 am Posts: 53 Yahoo Messenger: amercan_born_confused_desi@hotmail.com AOL: simthepain Location: Waukegan, IL | | dude, 1st of all, dont worry that much becausevery few gurlz are like that.
2nd of all, in ur case, u should kind of do what u would do if she was just ur friend. Its a simple as saying, "look i'm an individual on my own, and u need to understand that in somethings u just need to mind ur own business" rmbr that u need to kinda be the boss upto a certain extent. 3rd of all, if u think the quote i put wouldn't work well, then just kinda push her the way she does to u or just change the topic, SUDDENLY.
i hope it worx for u. _________________ "The first few seconds of when u meet her, always matter the most"
-A study from cambridge university
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| Gimmick | PostPosted: Wed Mar 07, 2007 3:06 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Fri Dec 29, 2006 3:08 am Posts: 7 Location: Chicago, Ill | | just tell her in a very NON-subtle way, that your just going to get off the phone now, if u say it right, girls always say why? or Noooooo!
if shes being sarcastic say: "i didn't know they served sarcastic sandwiches for lunch today"
that has never NOT gotten a laugh
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