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PostPosted: Tue Nov 22, 2016 7:56 am 
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Your hobbies are about you, not anyone else. However, they are a great way to meet like-minded people.

I do wildlife photography, and meet cool girls that way. It's also fun for a date. I go to the gym, and meet cool girls that way. I hike, same thing.

I do not watch TV or play video games (unless I'm at an arcade with a girl, or fucking my girl to porn, haha).

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PostPosted: Wed Nov 23, 2016 5:16 am 
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I thought your question was what sort of hobby could help you get better with women. One that involves talking with people regularly is what I said because women don't like when you do things to seek reactions out of them. Women will be cool with pretty much whatever your hobby is if they are into you like someone posted earlier.

Not to get extreme here, but I just want to give you an example. Charley Manson had plenty of women following him because he just did his thing and they liked him.

I got women to play chess with me and learn it because they wanted to impress me and be a part of my life. For the most part women are not typically into chess at all.

Here's one thing you may not realize. We have an extreme amount of power over women. It should be respected and not used to abuse women. Women will go against their friends, families, quit careers, and the list goes on for us.

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I got women to play chess with me and learn it because they wanted to impress me and be a part of my life. For the most part women are not typically into chess at all.
They actually tell you that they want to impress you?
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Here's one thing you may not realize. We have an extreme amount of power over women. It should be respected and not used to abuse women. Women will go against their friends, families, quit careers, and the list goes on for us.
We can do the same thing to men and it's easier for us to do it.


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Of course. It's definetly
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They actually tell you that they want to impress you?
It's easy for me to tell when someone is trying to impress me. What signs do you notice when you see this sort of behavior?
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We can do the same thing to men and it's easier for us to do it.
Definitely.

For me I was all in for that. Then I went through a period in my life where I itemized women for a few years with my abundance mentality and stripped away their power over me.

I realized how big a mistake this was later and I did some internal work to restore your worth back into my eyes.

Now I'm open to the possibility of being captured by a woman, but I have some core boundaries in place which I make transparent in a reasonable way.

Women have ways of subtly transforming men so these are sort of safeguards as well as red flag signals.

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Have a hobby that girls like that they react to. Don't be the typical guy playing video games and watching sports, girls never react to video games, watching sport, tv shows, movies etc.

As previously listed, instruments and cooking are great. Cooking may be better though as it's an activity girls can generally join in as well. With cooking, it's very hands on and physical. There's lots of contact with you and the girl.
I read these statements and wonder how many of you guys really do get girls. Even if you do get girls do you even understand why? We're not going to react to you playing an instrument if we don't like you. We're not going to join in and cook with you if we don't like you. If we like you we'll sit down and watch sports with you. If we like you, we'll try to play that video game with you and if we can't we'll watch. We'll watch your tv shows and movies with you if we like you. If you do any hobbies because you think it will attract girls you should be prepared to be disappointed. The moment we don't like you, we're going to hate your cooking, your music, your games, your favorite team, and anything we can relate to you.
I wouldn't base picking hobbies around getting girls. But I'd say have skills (cooking, instruments, etc) that turn girls on. I don't cook for a hobby, but I can cook when I have to and I'm pretty damn good at it. Cooking has yielded good results for me, but it's not because i'm a good cook that I've picked up. It mostly comes down to good game, then bringing her back, pulling out the cooking and having her dazed in amazement and closing :).

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PostPosted: Wed Nov 23, 2016 8:09 am 
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It's easy for me to tell when someone is trying to impress me. What signs do you notice when you see this sort of behavior?
Chess is complicated to people who don't know how to play. It's weird for someone to try to impress someone else with something that they are less skilled in. If they wanted to impress you then they should impress you with something that they have an expertise in. I'm thinking that it's more that they wanted to do something that you enjoyed doing like I said earlier.


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I wouldn't base picking hobbies around getting girls. But I'd say have skills (cooking, instruments, etc) that turn girls on. I don't cook for a hobby, but I can cook when I have to and I'm pretty damn good at it. Cooking has yielded good results for me, but it's not because i'm a good cook that I've picked up. It mostly comes down to good game, then bringing her back, pulling out the cooking and having her dazed in amazement and closing .
So you're saying exactly what I'm saying now. You have good game so the girl likes you and because of that she is "dazed in amazement" because you cook for her. If you didn't have good game then the amazement wouldn't be there.

Lolol. If we were so amazed by cooking, no guy would ever take his date to a restaurant because he'd lose the girl to the chef.


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It's easy for me to tell when someone is trying to impress me. What signs do you notice when you see this sort of behavior?
Chess is complicated to people who don't know how to play. It's weird for someone to try to impress someone else with something that they are less skilled in. If they wanted to impress you then they should impress you with something that they have an expertise in. I'm thinking that it's more that they wanted to do something that you enjoyed doing like I said earlier.
That makes sense. It's impressive to me to see women trying new things. As well as being inquisitive and teachable.

I'm sure it's the way that you said it actually now looking at it like that. I was just naturally impressed. They weren't thinking too deeply about it haha.

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Fucks sake OP. Get hobbies that you enjoy.
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Your hobbies are about you, not anyone else. However, they are a great way to meet like-minded people.

I do wildlife photography, and meet cool girls that way. It's also fun for a date. I go to the gym, and meet cool girls that way. I hike, same thing.
This.

Don't be the guy that's taking dance classes just to "meet women". Be the guy that takes dance classes because he likes dancing. And if you meet a cool girl there, great.

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Fucks sake OP. Get hobbies that you enjoy.
Yeah Im looking to try new stuff. Getting ideas here.


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Fucks sake OP. Get hobbies that you enjoy.
Yeah Im looking to try new stuff. Getting ideas here.

Get it from your own head. You should know yourself better than us. Besides, if you don't know yourself, start figuring it out now.

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