Hi guys,

Since i became single a couple of months ago i started dating about 5 girls, I had the time of my life and even though some were uglier than others i still had fun with them. With 2 girls things got a bit more serious, sleeping over, cooking together, going away for the weekend etc...

Now 30 minutes ago i was at this girls house, plan was to chill together and sleep over at her place. After dinner we layed on the bed and she starts crying. A little background, 4 days ago i was showing a picture to her on my phone and a girl SPAM me, with the new ios 10 update you can see the message at the top of the screen, it was a heart and she was saved under Tinder Cute "her name".. so she asked me who is this girl and she thought it was weird i was dating another girl.. we still went to the movies and she was cool about it, it seemed...

So back to 30 minutes ago, she starts crying and tells me she thought we were heading into a serious relationship... i was not clear in my intentions etc, i thought i was but looking back i really wasn't.

So i guess i should tell girls before we start dating i am not looking for anything serious right now... but i kinda am when everything clicks... i just like to spread my odds of finding a quality girl i connect with on another level..

So how does one succesfully date multiple woman without making girls cry cause i hate that shit.

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I don't get it.

Everything clicks, she feels connected to you, and suddenly she finds out you're also fucking someone else. Kinda bursting her bubble there isn't it?
If you don't want her to cry then don't expose her to shit that will elicit that kind of emotional response. Everything is more or less fair game unless you've gone exclusive, but that doesn't mean you need to be shoving it in her damn face. And if you know it won't lead up to anything serious, then don't act as if you're a pseudo couple doing all that relationshipy shit together.

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What the fuck man? You need a player education.

Stop saving girls in your phone. Especially as girls makes. Save Erica as Eric. That way none of the girls ever question shit.

I also suggest that, if you're going to have the "main girl" like that whom you're going to keep in the dark about other girls, you make sure the other girls are well aware of your situation with the main girl and make sure they know better than to FUCK that up. No Facebook posts. No snap chats. No pictures.

If you wanna live like a rock star, you gotta start acting like it. No more saving girls as The cutesy boots patoots whatever the fuck bullshit nick name you gave her so you get all bubbly feeling when she texts you or so you can show off to your buddies. Unless you're just seeking attention with this post, you should be way past this nonsense by now.

Also, if you'd like to get on some real special agent shit, Theres an app called "hide it pro" that you need to download, immediately. It's free. It's a "contact list" disguised as a calculator. It lets you save phone numbers without them showing up in your regular contacts. It's kinda like giving your hoe-o-dex to your buddy. You need to enter a pass code to access it. Highly suggested if you're going to live out this lifestyle.

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Whether you tell them or you don't tell them; they're going to develop the same chemical connection with you that a woman develops when consistently sleeping with a man she's interested in for an extended period of time. There is no way around that. You can tell her.. sure. That'll spare your own conscious and its the right thing to do, but its not going to spare their emotions. You'll just be able to say " I told you so", which won't really make anything better.

When dating multiple women these things are going to happen; your job as the partner is just to deal with these emotions how they come. She'll cry, she'll complain about not being the only one, but its your job to help her navigate through these emotions if you're going to be in the position of "The guy with multiple women". You have to pay to play. And thats the price you pay when making this lifestyle work.

You can't want the benefits of enjoyment of dating multiple attractive women without everything else that comes with it. Take the bitter with the sweet. Thats life.

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Do you all like to deceive people?

I had 4 girls in rotation till few weeks ago and I told them all that I was not looking for something too serious and that occasionally I date other women too.

Guess what, all of them had not a fuckin problem with that (one actually showed to really like that I was seeing also other women, made her very horny, not hard to guess why). I was open, honest, told them upfront what I was looking for and what I was not.

Guess what? They liked the fun, they liked the sex, one of them dumped me after few months.

Actually since I started saying that I did not look for anything serious I had much less problems than pretending to only see one of them.

Not a single one told me she was not okay, but I have to say two of them said they were okay with that but in the end expected more.

Who said anything about deceit?

His problem is not what he's saying but how he's acting. He can tell them whatever the hell he wants to but as long as he keeps acting like a boyfriend he's going to get a girlfriend. If he wants fuck buddies he needs to stop cooking together and going on weekend trips.

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Guys are retarded when it comes to keeping things to a minimal on the boyfriend level. Sure you can do a couple of boyfriend things, but you are pushing the wrong buttons. I don't have a problem with cooking. Weekend trips...l, that's another ball game.

I personally have a rule of seeing a girl once a week. Twice if it's my main girl but never more than that. I don't take them out to fancy restaurants or meet family. I also don't let a fuck buddy sleep over. If it's a girl I like romantically, then I will let her sleep over. I also don't hint at "falling for her" because this is where you fuck up and the girl will give you shit because you are being dishonest.

I recommend putting pictures up with you and other girls. Obviously not making out, but in a social situation. Girls will go through many scenarios in their head. Let them. Eventually you will have to state it how it is down the road because girls can only be cool with it for so long. Some girls will stay. Some girls will go.

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The only way I see someone pulling this off successfully without creating a crapload of emotional damage and drama is being open about it with girls before they have full on intercourse with them while also knowing full well that being open about it might make you lose some girls along the way who aren't interested in open relationships. You need to find the women who are interested in that sort of thing. Numbers game, partly.

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