No i have never asked i girl on a date, simply because i dont have any sexual tension with girls to do it... Who should i ask my colleague? Who i have absolutely no sexual tension it's a bit hard to explain but it's almost like i am in friendzone but i am not THEIR FRIEND i'm just some guy who study with them, hang out with them but nothing else...

There is this fucking girl who i've completely in love with and i already hooked up with her last year, but she did not recorded till i told her. I've been talking to her by twitter and once in real life, and i simply used all the weapons i leanerd from pua in the talk, we have almost EVERYTHING in common, really!!! and she constatly hooks up with a not so close friend, so i need to ''stole'' her she is a very crazy girl so... What is the next step?

R.C don't worry about it. noobs man. They just don't get it. I've been in the pick up game for 4 yrs. originally on here as vein. I know how difficult it is to answer these questions when pieces were left out that we have to pry from the person asking. But if they want true advice they have to open up with us and we will discuss in detail once we have ALL the info

No prejudice man or anything personal. Maybe i exaggerated a bit, but it's because i've seen posters on this very forum that contacted me to talk about stuff and meet; when i asked them why don't they post questions or explain their situations on the forum to get advice from more experienced people, they lamented that they are afraid.

Now don't get me wrong, it's no ones obligation to do anything and there is fantastic advice given by most and probably you to; but i know how difficult it is for most to ask help on things like this and surrender their ego of not being the secret Don Juan that they might imagine themselfs to be. The OP seemed genuine to me and i guess i felt a bit sorry.

As you can see, my question was pretty much on point. The OP never asked a girl on a date. But he has revealed that the reason for that is he feels no sexual tension. So now the real problem can be addressed.

Every successful guy on this forum has surrendered his ego at some point. And it's a big part of why they're successful in the first place.

@OP:
First thing's first. Sexual tension is generated through flirting. If flirting is not part of who you are yet, you need to start doing it pro-actively until it becomes second nature.
Sometimes you can amp the sexuality of flirting, other times you can keep it lower depending on your own interest levels, but the undertone of seduction and charm should be there in virtually 99% of your interactions with women, regardless if they're store clerks, cashiers, friends, colleagues, etc.

Secondly, the dynamic of your relationship with any given woman will be determined very early on.
If you present yourself as a friend, your relationship will evolve on a path of friendship.
If you present yourself as a sexual option, you will be seen as one. Whether or not it gets there is up to you, but asking a girl on a date will always be received better when it comes from a guy that has expressed some sort of interest since day one, as opposed to the guy that tried to befriend and then all of a sudden is shifting to romantic. Which is pretty much the way guys end up friendzoned.

The next step for you is to expand your options and apply the above.

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Lol. Your response was "Dick". That at its core was going personal.

We know that a lot of new guys want to apply prison rules when they want to establish their place on the forum. Go find the biggest guy in the yard (the one with 39498 posts) and take him down to gain the respect of everyone else. It's a constant here and I blame the AMOG theories. You're not going to be the last one to do it and if you stick around long enough then someone is going to try to take you down to establish their place.

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How do i present my self as a sexual option? I Just talk normally with girls about fun things...

Flirting. You don't have to overdo it. Just don't let her believe that your intention is to be just her friend.

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^ Exactly.

You talk normally about fun things with your male friends.

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Women don't see you as a man because you're not a man. You're a 17 year old boy.

I meant the girls of my age dude. So can somewhone recommend a read about the subject?? How to make my thoughts clear or how to make her want tô go out with me, something like that...

If you want a book, go for Models by Mark Manson.

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