I'm the kind of guy who can go to a bar full of people singing, dancing, and kissing.

And I'll be the guy sitting by himself with a frown on. Nobody knows my name and I don't know there's.

It is work for me to try to be sociable and take interest in other people's lives. "Exploring humanity" and genuinely liking people is basically a precursor to success in this.

Every now and then, you will find a girl that finds an antisocial guy attractive or intriguing, but it's not the norm.

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And I just reread "The Mystery Method," and it talks about how I should be moving a girl from

Meeting location --> C1 --> C2 --> C3 --> Sex location

C1 = comfort-building location at the club or bar
C2 = separate comfort-building location like a coffee shop
C3 = comfort-building location at my house

While the whole time being funny, positive, likeable, and sociable.

This seems so far out of reach.

Although I do show my flashes of brilliance. I just never capitalize on them.

I haven't gotten a girl to invest in me any more than politeness in a while. I don't see what value I have or what would make them want to other than the fact that they might have 3-4 orgasms. But how are they going to know I'm not lying because "every guy says they're good in bed," and if you tell a girl you are, she will probably think you are lying.

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