You're thinking way too complicated. Here is the harsh truth. No one gives a shit about you. Especially in social setting. People will forget about you 10 min down the road. Unless the girl flat out screaming NO STOP TOUCHING MY VAGINA... no one cares or even pay attention to your conversation with her.

Second, your mindset is completely wrong. When she said no to your offer, it is HER that misses the chance to hang out with a great guy. It is NOT YOUR LOSS. It's your GAIN, as in you didn't have to waste time and energy on someone who is NOT INTERESTED in you. No man is irresistible to EVERY WOMAN. Even George Clooney. Some woman wouldnt find him attractive at all.

YOU ARE NOT PERFECT so get off your high horse and stop expecting EVERY girl to like you. Just except the fact that some of them will not be interested. MOVE ON. And focus your energy on those that are INTERESTED in you.

Statements like this always give me a chuckle. Its circular logic, really, and frankly makes 0 sense whatsoever.

If somebody doesn't want to hangout with you, is it your gain. But if they want to hangout with you, it is also your gain.

I know you're going to say be thankful she didn't waste your time, but really a guy should be able to sniff-out a time waister anyway, and make the decision to not continue on with her.

Might sound like a bit of mental gymnastics, however that statement gets me everytime lol