Hey guys, I have a bit of a problem.

I have fancied this girl, Chloe, who happens to be one of my best friends from school for a long time. I had never had the guts to tell her I like her back then or even knew if she ever liked me so I basically gave up throughout school and college trying to get her to be my girlfriend.

Now ever since I have found out about the game (about 1 and a half years ago) my success with seducing women has really come on well. I feel a lot more confident talking to women, going for the kiss and asking for the number, and I have gotten laid along the way too. So all in all learning game has done me good.

Back in April, me and a few of my friends (Including Chloe) went on a night out in Manchester to see a concert. After the concert we all went back to our hotel apartment and carried on drinking. That night me and Chloe were talking about some pretty deep stuff about our past relationships with other girls and guys and what went wrong in those relationships, and a lot of deep rapport was built.

Now ever since that night whenever us two went on a night out, I started to notice a lot of very clear ioi’s!
One night, In June our group and us went to our local bar and just casually enjoyed our Saturday night. However When everyone else had to leave because they had work the next day, me and chloe stayed out in this Bar until closing time.

Once the bar closed, I told her I had to walk home, to which she offered me a place to stay at her house. So I went back to her house, and we got into bed and talked for a while. The conversation then turned into more deep stuff and she started telling me how she just wanted to see some one regularly and for that person to be monogamous to her only.

Finally we had sex that night but after it she said she felt awkward because we were such good friends and that she thought we should try it again sometime. The next morning when I left I said I’d text her later on that day. When I text her seeing if she was going to come over see replied saying that “I’ve thought about it and I feel it’s abit awkward, sorry”.

Whenever we went out after that we just acted as if nothing happened. However I still want a relationship with her. Two months have now gone since we had sex and its bugging me not knowing if she likes me or not and wants to be in a relationship or not.

My question is what should I do?

Should I talk to her, face to face and tell her everything? About how I like her and want to be in a relationship?

Or

Should I use some sort of game tactics and ease back into it?

You don't need any tactics. She had sex with you and wanted to do it again. Go over to her house with wine.

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Translation:

"You didn't get me off, you weren't dominant enough in bed, I'm going try one of the guys that hits me up on social media".


1. Stop contacting her. Ignore one or two of her texts, too.

2. Show up where she is with a girl on your arms. This will help re-sexualize you in her eyes. something about your performance that night ruined it for her. The conversation you had with her in bed pre-sex sounded powerful and like you had her, then something happened.

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Girls get freaked the fuck out when guys start talking about a relationship after having sex. Especially if you were already friends. Just shut the fuck up and be the friend she can sleep with for fun. I know you might think she's your little princess and you need to make her your wife, but being the preferred, chill/no strings booty call isn't a bad position to hold in her Dick-a-Dex.

What Jack said. Also stop talking about "deep stuff" so much.

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