I recently broke up with a girl (let's call her sue), after her cheating on me.
Today I went back on my okcupid account and noticed that I had been speaking to sue's sister (let's call her Pam) 2.5 years ago (small world). Though me and Pam never ended up meeting at that time.
The devil on my shoulder is seeing this as a sweet opportunity for justice! But logic is telling me this situation is next to impossible, if at all doable.
I've only met Pam one time in person, through passing. While dating Sue. We didn't say anything to each other. I just find it hilarious that I met her online a couple years back, and see that as a great ice breaker already. However, the fact that I ducked her sister sue for a month and a half makes this approach tricky.
My question is, is there be a possible way for me to get into Pam's pants?

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Use your time more wisely for girls that you have a chance with. Get realistic.

The only way I see this working is if they are not close with one another.

Just imagine if your brother told you he is dating a girl and then it is your ex? Surely the dynamic will implode and your relationship with your family is not worth the risk

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Justice? For what, exactly? She'd cheated on you and rather than untether yourself and get on with your life to meet quality women, you instead want to remain in the squalor you've created to reap justice on a girl who has clearly moved on?

Ironic a bit, don't ya think?!

Clearly you're interested in getting into those pants so just give it a try. If you won't try it will never happen... You can be honest with her and tell her you've dated her sister. This approach has the social proof built in it... You can also try without telling her that you've banged her sister and see how it goes... Good luck

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You can give it a shot man.

But most of these situations backfire and you will often realize that being the bigger man and moving completely forward will yield you a lot better results than being petty and vindictive. I'd let it go. The mentality will only lead you to misery.

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All of you are right. Definitely a bad idea in the long run, for sure.

@n2thevoid what is this thing people call "move on" ? It's looked at totally wrong. Moving on is not simply getting with another person. Either sex could fuck 1 or 100 other people and not move on. Especially women, since they hold all sexual power, and get this false idea that sleeping with multiple dudes in one week after a break up is going to give them satisfaction. Hence why they become "damaged goods"
Truly moving on is when a person has no more affect on you anymore.
Therefore I still don't have an ex who's "moved on" to this day.

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