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What I pointed out was that things you claimed to understand were either too subjective to judge accurately or lacking reference points. I asked for something more objective and didn’t get it (and didn’t really expect to). Not sure what the confusion is. And people are getting hit on, just not with the grossly exaggerated rate that PUA folks and you claim women get hit on.
The confusion is, you say something (ie beauty) is subjective, then ask for some OBJECTIVE standards. That's the point. Its subjective. Do you not see how ridiculous that sounds?
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Her being your 10? Sure, makes sense, I’m sure you’re benefiting yourself greatly rating your women in your head…
See, this is why I know there's something personal going on with you and this rating system thing. You really have a weird way of looking at things. If I think a chick is perfect physically in my eyes, whats your issue with that? Its not meant to benefit me to rate something. You have this sick weird way of thinking and looking at things. Whatever ranking I give something in my life; a chick, my car, my place...if I had to rate these on how perfect they are for me...its just a rating. RATING things, does not make someone happy, sad, or anything. I like my cell phone. Its nice looking, but I wish it were a bit smaller. I'd rate the appearance as an 8. Saying its an 8, does not make me feel happy or benefit me in some way.
You act like there is much objectivity in rating ANYTHING. There's not. As I said before, giving your opinion on something using a scale, is not a PU thing. You can have an issue with PU stuff, I do as well, but not just for the sake of it. You're really asking for an openly subjective OPINION system, which no one in PU takes seriously, and your problem is its not OBJECTIVE. While youve said it cant be objective. Arch says his girl is a 10. All that tells me quickly is his girl is perfect physically to him. I'm not gonna ask him well maybe some guys will rate her a 7 so dont rate her, or have you counted how many approaches she gets and graphed that against other chicks? Whenever a guy describes a girl as a HB 7 or HB 9, I just take it for what it is...his opinion. Its that simple. Same way I wont go to Rotten Tomatoes and ask them for a formal rating system for movies, or else they should stop rating movies.
Converting my opinion of a chick's beauty to a number, to express my opinion quickly to someone, doesnt make me feel better or worse before I converted it to a number. If a chick is attractive or very attractive to me, rating her does nothing for me. Having an opinion on which friend I'd set a chick up with from a picture does not make me an asshole or judgemental. Nvr heard someone say that having an opinion means your head is up your ass or you're benefiting somehow from that opinion. Do you think like this? Like if I asked who is hotter Scarlet Joh or Taylor swift, that its some big deal or some deep dark judgment on your part? Thsts just so weird to me.