Wouldn't it be great we lived in a world where we were the only men amongst millions of women? Well, there is no world wars so you will just accept the situation for what it is.

Consider yourself lucky that you're involved with pick up to exponentially increase your chances of meeting women.

Send me your profile, I can guarantee you, that it's not up to the par. So instead of blaming economy or the platform, focus on shit you can control.

It really isn't that hard.

If you're out of shape. GET IN SHAPE
If you are dressed crappy, UPGRADE YOUR WARDROBE
If you your pics are plain and boring, GET AHOLD OF A BETTER CAMERA AND GET CREATIVE
If you are getting matches but no replies, LEARN SOME GAME AND DIFFERENTIATE YOURSELF FROM THE OTHER GUYS THAT ARE SAYING 'Hi'

And so on...

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I don't want to appear to be making excuses. I am learning literally weekly. 95% of the time my failures in the past with women were my fault. But I'm learning....quick. Oh and I'm in shape. I live a healthy lifestyle and that will not change.

There is some sense in your words... I haven't thought about it even but you are right as before the internet and social networks a girl was proposed by one or two guys and chose. But didn't have such a great choice of guys all over the world as nowadays. But it is not the only reason. First of all, demands of girls have grown and their status in society. They know their so called " price" and wait for those who will offer more. And guys compete with each other: one has presented flowers, the other one perfume, car, flat....etc.

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Let those type of men compete. I will be over here with a condom and a movie in hand.

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Hey, first post I am putting up here...

I agree that its easier than ever to get women these days. I am not the biggest fan of online dating, although I am giving it a crack now for fun, but I do know that when I was a youngster (im 33 now) it was harder and I had no success with women. Today, not only do you have access to tons of different women at the touch of your fingertips, but things like, "nerd" culture is gaining ground with women, people are more educated about relationships, you can go to forums like this, you can google your sticking points, you can do anything. I also love it because it makes women more sexually liberated too.

Inner game man, your mind is the ultimate enemy here. I know some of the biggest, lamest dudes who hook-up on tinder etc. I found a top Domme Mistress online and that girl has given me such naughty adventures, its amazing. Just jump in, be confident.

Women give shit tests as they've always done. Confident men with social status are and always will be in short supply.

I don't think there's more competition. The more confident and attractive you get, the less competition you have.

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Exactly.....

What about my post? Do you disagree or are you clinging ontop the limiting belief's to justify your inaction?

Have you got anything to report from the field since making this thread?

Replies like that only confirms that you are making threads to find out what you want to hear rather than to seek the tangible advice.

There are people getting laid, EVERY SINGLE DAY. There is no reason why you shouldn't be able to, ESPECIALLY since you are amongst a lot of knowledge of the self-help world and this forum and it's veterans to give you the edge amongst 'competition'.

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Ok, so the internet ruined it all. What are you going to do about it? Start a movement to abolish smartphones? Build a time machine to go back to 1996? Or find ways to circumvent this obstacle? I'll take the latter. Good luck.

I never said the internet ruined it all. It hasn't.

Yes, women have more competition now than ever before. Not only that but all these guys are no longer pathetic chodes. The are dressing better, many have read up on dating material and PUA stuff, and many are out hitting on women.

You can let this knock you down or you can use it as an inspiration to rise above the crowd.

Its been said already but is worth repeating:

- Improve your looks
- Improve your life
- Improve your social and seductive skills

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I seriously can't relate to this view of yours, at all. It doesnt even come up on my radar.

The truth is I've NEVER in m life ever worried about what other guys are doing, who my so-called competition is etc. It doesnt come on my radar, never has even when i was at chode status. Every single fucking time i'm with a girl she has may attention, I make sure as if instinctively (not really a conscious effort for me) she feels desired. They get hooked, I don't worry about who else they may be talking to UNLESS we're in a relationship and there are signs things aren't going well in which case I can sit in that anxiety or take that as a cue that I am letting myself slip and re-invest in myself knowing the relationship will likely improve again as a result.

Buy a women with stuff? Ew. No thanks. You can do that trying to win their affection with things while I am dating them, sleeping with them etc.

2-3 weeks into dating my current girl she's been dropping obvious hints she wants exclusivity. I am not cocky I am just that confident I have what it takes, even IF my life isn't all that together. I probably exude this confidence in what I sub communicate to her. I lay down with her, she's got her face in my chest smelling me, I grab her ass without apprehension, squeeze a bit, run my hand up and down the back of her thigh in an assertive manner. I pull her left leg over my right hip so her pussy is close enough to feel how hard I am -i make 0 apologies. I am in control, I am navigating her and filing her mind with anticipation. I don't fuck her. I know exactly what I am doing (and I want her too) - giving her the female equivalent of "blue balls". I leave her with tension, she goes home texting me all the stuff she was too shy to say to my face, the raunchy little slut in her comes out. I've set the stage for our next meet, and she has the next several days at work to be all hot and bothered thinking about my touching her, being inside her. Its perfectly natural, i sit in my masculine, she's in her feminine and i can tell you she's dripping wet in anticipation and the high I get KNOWING i can have it (and sometimes not taking it) only to regulate the tension to whatever level i want.