I did this morning. No luck.

How many times can you try and get rejected before it seems really desperate. I just felt I gave all the power away and she seemed real smug and unattracted when she left. Remember the same feeling as from my youth days when I was needy and desperat. The girls feel like they won already. Sigh.

I read somewhere with girls like this it's better to wait with the kiss until you get home. Cause it show some restraint and make things less obvious. What do you think? I prefer kissclose as soon as I see the opportunity, just to pass that treashold. Worked well for me before, until now.

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When you realize your six year old self had better game than you, pushing girls in puddles, pulling their hair and giving absolutely zero fucks.

Live by your sig Bro, good one.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

You're feeling frustration, shame, and futility in having pursued this woman.


"I gave all the power away"

"The girls feel like they won already"

This is all stuff made by the Ego. Must it be a game to be won? Can you think of any way this may be impeding your progress, and overall opportunities with women?

I am not talking about your latest text to her, rather how these thoughts may be affecting your interactions with them, and your ability to attract them.


And what of your text this morning? You had an expectation (for a response) that wasn't meant. Had she'd responded you'd be here telling us of your success and riding a temporary high.

What exactly happened? Where did you meet and what happened

You're absolutly right about my attitude/Ego and it impeding my progress. However I don't see how any kind of thought of "having to win her back" would not be an extension of that attitude? Thus, I am dropping the issue and turning my attention to other girls.

I did not text her this morning. We have not had any contact since she left. Maby you missunderstood something I wrote?

I just retold what happend to be transparent and avoid braging. A lot of guys on the forum write novels when it goes their way, then turn quite when things go south (happens to everyone sometimes). What I did try this morning was to give her a massage and finger her, where the last part was rejected.

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When you realize your six year old self had better game than you, pushing girls in puddles, pulling their hair and giving absolutely zero fucks.

I think sometimes we don't need to think so hard about some things and just do what your heart says you to do. If she wrote you the long message means she cares about you and wants to have your attention. Maybe she really had a reason not to write all this time or just couldn't because of some circumstances. You can behave like nothing happened.It is the best variant I think. If you begin asking her about why she wrote only now there are two variants: she can like this as it will sound like you counted days waiting for a line from her. Or (depends on a girl) she will be scared a bit that you have stronger feelings maybe or that you are a guy who can't hide your emotions,etc.

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No such thing as a "kiss close".

You kiss a girl when you want to kiss a girl. No defined time or planning. You're the man, so lead.

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