So I had a short interaction with some girl on Facebook we exchanged like 8 messages then I told her she's cute and I wanna get to know her then she said " haha how old are you " then I responded and then she said something offtopic and then I told her " What's your number I prefer to communicate on whatssup " and then she stopped responding... now obviously I assume she isnt interested but if I want to drop a " Last Resort " message like " So I assume you're not that interested to talk/meet/know me, it's alright if not because I added you very randomly after all : ) "

I think my example message is pretty shitty so something better is welcome .

What's with these threads with everyone creepily adding girls on Facebook these days?

Have you guys never heard of dating websites/apps?

It is a place where girls won't think you're a creep for messaging them.... It could be possibly be a better use of your time?

If you were fishing, would you choose to fish in a stale part of a lake? Or instead a section of the lake where there are fish actively biting the bait?

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^ It makes me cringe when I read stuff like that. It's ok, OP, you will get better.

Take a short break and then read your message above again, what is appallingly shitty about it?

As long as it doesnt cost money it's all ok and this specific one we have mutual friends that suggested me to try and hit up on her

Man, there may be many reasons why she stopped responding and you can go nuts for days just assuming stuff. You need to clear your head and change the subject with her. Try typing a really funny comment or even a relevant joke and see if she responds. Being funny is one of the best ways of refreshing a girl's opinion of you.

I may be wrong, but girls DO love to laugh...

By the way, Facebook is like the guy above said, a shallow stale place to fish, in my opinion too. It's hard work and you give every girl there a million reasons to disqualify you by seeing everything about you. At least it's like that with me because I give zero fucks...
Good luck.

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Could be many reasons she stopped responding. One of which being the guy who is banging her turned up while you were waiting on the other side with the cute little chat box in Facebook still open.

You exchanged 8 messages with a random on Facebook and basically want to know how to "get her back." This is not good.

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Don't send that.

You didn't get her warm enough yet so she pulled. Every woman I talk to nowadays that uses any form of online dating all complain about the fast pace at which guys try to move. The guys are all like "Hey" .. "How Are you" " You want to come to my place".

Its online so its understandable. You want to get things offline and the ball rolling as soon as possible. Sometimes you'll hit this way and other times you'll need to invest a bit more. But you'll be surprised at just how fast a woman is ready to just "come to your place" if you spend just a few more minutes exchanging messages.

A lot of guys rush because they aren't confident in their ability to continue the conversation after a while. They want to hurry and get some return before they mess things up. But you have to be confident enough to know that you can maintain attraction through any platform for extended amounts of time.

Now to your question.. A good second ping would be to call yourself out.. " I moved too fast for you huh lol" and then cycle back into normal conversation and then try again. Either way its hit or miss.

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As RC said, tinder.

There's one called grindr, too. Think that's Dragulas thing so you could get some tips(literally)

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Negging me

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Was a line I learned from the RSD forum when I made a thread on how to get you to break no contact and date me. Seems to be working so far.

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Seems you completely misunderstood the concept of "Sealing the deal".

It's thirsty ass actions like this, that makes women see how easy it is to manipulate. All she had to do was pause, and look how thirsty you got.

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