Quote:
anyway after our dinner date,she sends me a long text message about how she loves her current boyfriend though he is an arsehole and that she can't help but love him.she tells me am nice to her but she cannot control who she loves.she says she wants me as a friend and that i am amazing.anyway i tell her am going to the mall tomorrow to do some shopping.she asks me to pass by her house and bring her some stuff.i seriously got offended at that.shouldn't her boyfrind be doing her chores? I am thinking of cutting her off but i feel guilty because she seems like a nice peson.what to do?
So your intent is to fuck her. When you try she rebuffs your attempts.
So now she's asking a favour of you and you don't want to feel used.
But she's asking you to come by her place....which Haywood would say is an invitation for her to ride your face.
You'd treated her like a 'slut' based on how she'd dressed. Now you're feeling guilty about the idea of "cutting her off"?
Wow you're so noble...
Please, this has 0 to do with her 'being nice'. In fact with all the confused signals she's putting out and in spite of your attempts to sexualize things you're still clinging on to hope.
Either put up or SHUT UP. In other words, either go to her place with the intention of operating from a sexual frame (and respecting IF she shuts you down by leaving), or move onto someone receptive to your advances who ISNT attached.
she wasn't inviting me over.i didn't go anyway because she wasn't really inviting me.she just wanted me to drop something at her place where sex is impossible because she lives with her famiy.