I haven't been to the clubs in a long time, last night, I went out and dammnnnnnn, I forgot how revealing some girls can be in the summer . I went out with my social circle last night. I have never considered myself a dancer. I kinda am intrigued about dance floor seduction but I have heard that its a trap and players should avoid it. Thoughts ?

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Dancing is a good skill to have, but it's just a tool when it comes to seduction. You can use it to open, screen, set up the close...but no matter what, it isn't an end all be all type of thing. Guys with game and can dance will get laid. Guys with game and can't dance will get laid. Guys with no game and can dance may get lucky every once in a while but more often than not go home alone.

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People need to understand that there is no such thing as dance game

It's about meeting a girl and projecting your sexual presence. You're escalating the vibe so not about having the coolest spins.

Everybody knows someone great at salsa (There to meet women usually) but does not know how to make a move with women just like a gym rat who lifts weights for women but can't get women.... If the salsa rat or the gym rat do not produce sexual tension and make a move, then they have to rely on the girl making the move.

Whether it be verbal or non-verbal. If you're looking at her like you want to ravish her, this will produce sexual tension.

I am crap at dancing but I would say I have taken home about 60+ girls from the dancefloor.

Dancing is a great excuse to get close and physical, otherwise, it's awkward to shout at one another in that environment. That's why I love it. Most guys are in there trying to have stimulating conversations and wood pecking girl's ears whilst I'm using facial expressions and eye contact to ping girls before I have gotten near them.

Not to mention girls are boosting their buying temperature's and feel horny being around the sexual energy of a dance floor....Ever noticed when nobody is making out on the dancefloor then, the whole crowd does not either? But when it's happening left,right and centre the power of osmosis will aid the girl you like to more likely to do it.

Dancefloor ain't a trap. It's a conveyer belt of DTF in my opinion. But that is MY perception. If you think it's a trap then the self-fulfilling prophecy will make it so. But I can tell you right now.

If you consider yourself a ladies man, then it is in your interest to be versatile because you never know when you might your dream girl and you do not want to meet her in an environment where you have no experience with seduction with it.

I remember when I got training from Richard Gambler and I ranted about how the hell would I meet foreign girls on a loud dance floor, his reply was....'Non -verbal game' - Ironically it's now my fav place to meet women. I have now slept with girls that do not speak a single word of my language in a loud environment because I know how the game works. It's like seeing the matrix

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Interesting. I guess even though Jack considers it a tool in a players repertoire, it's a pretty damn good tool to have. I was dancing the other night and like actually participated and said why the hell not. I usually do ok without the dancing but nonverbally butt bumping little cuties and using nothing but your body and facial expressions was pretty fun.

I think I will practice a little more with this. Music is everywhere, dancing to it just adds to the fun of it all. Thanks for the replies guys.

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Great advice here. What kind of dance are you guys learning?

Lol well you obviously didn't read my post with this comment where I specified that dancing is not even part of dance game

Anyway, this get's all the girls:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pQ9__bgJLCo

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Personally I am not learning anything crazy or stuff to show off. I am starting off learning how to carry a beat, listen to the rhythm and just let the music take me where it needs to. Some dance club moves will be learned but in the end the girl and I end up grinding on each other. That's how we dance in America at least, not sure about other places in the world.

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Lmao, gotta love Borat. I did read your post (fantastic advice by the way), the idea to escalate the vibe and that the specific dance itself doesn't matter. I was just curious
Got it, and I like the focus on doing enough to escalate.

Meeting girls on the dance floor isn't about pulling off advanced dance-moves or anything like that.

What's more important to learn is -

How to not do stupid shit and be comfortable and confident in yourself
How to exchange IOI's with a girl or more than one girl who are dancing
How to open or begin an interaction in a calibrated way
How to use non-verbals to communicate (less is more on the dancefloor, don't go trying to have a conversation, playful flirtatious comments are all you need)
How to handle the entire situation and occurrences that interrupt your goal (other dudes mostly, but there is a lot that can cockblock you)
How to let a girl be sexy for you
Understanding acceptance from groups of girls to your advances, when they're interested or when they're playing hard to get
How to plant the seed for later so they remember you or lead your chosen girl off the dance-floor when the time is right

Understand - THE DANCEFLOOR IS A PLACE FOR THE GIRLS TO FEEL SEXUAL AND DISPLAY THEMSELVES TO MEN - If you do manage to get her interested enough to get one on one with you away from the dancefloor, there is no doubt she is attracted to you and your only job now is to continue the seduction, lead and not fuck it up for yourself. So be the guy that makes her dreams come true.

As has already been mentioned. It's not the be all and end all of game and you can certainly be successful with girls without the skill. But I am the type of guy that believes if you're working on your pick up skills and take this shit seriously, you should challenge yourself in every area as to widen your options and increase your confidence in all avenues that you can possibly meet and pull women.

There's a huge difference in "grinding" and dancing in my opinion. I'd say learning how to dance isn't very important. I suppose you'd get some social value out of being a "good dancer but when it comes to directly related to actually fucking the girl, I'd say it doesn't matter.

It's like being a good artist or something... Sure, girls will give you attention. But it's not necessarily the kind of attention that will help you get laid. But knowing how to grind on a girl to turn up the sexual tension, well that's definitely helpful.

My only thing is make sure you don't let her get off dancing and then go home. Don't "give it all to her" on the dance floor.