| Okay, I am going to try to keep this as short and to the point as I possibly can. I need professional advice for the situation I am in. I am new to this forum so please pardon my ignorance when it comes to the scene. I am 22 years old and am new to the whole picking up girls thing. My late involvement in this field is due to many factors that are not necessary discussing in this post. But the point is I am reaching out on this site to whoever can help me ASAP. I am currently vacationing at the beach with my family. Its just my mother, father, younger sister and myself. Today we went down to the beach where we have rented chairs and umbrellas and relaxed. I noticed an extremely sexy girl sitting directly to the right of me. As the day progressed, I began to notice her turning around in her seat to look my way several times in addition to making several other obvious attention getting movements that attractive women do. I did not think too much of it but my father noticed also and brought up the fact that she seemed to be trying to get my attention. Eventually I ended up talking with her and her mother (she’s alone on vacation with her family too) and it turns out she is 30 years old and we have a good conversation about school and it turns out that she and her family are from the same area I currently live in (she lives in Raleigh, NC now). We say goodbye, see you around, whatever and we go on doing our own things on the beach. I realize that I might want to get her phone number but being on the beach, I did not have my phone, nor did I have any means of taking down her number. So I race up to our condo, get my phone then head back down only to see that she had left. As it turns out, my mother talked to her mother while I was talking to her (I know its embarrassing as hell but I didn’t have a choice) and she told my mom that her daughter is divorced from some army dude that banged his commanding officer 2 years ago. Apparently she’s been really broke up about it and has not gotten “back out there” yet. I am not stupid, I realize that her mom didn’t tell my mom these things about her daughter to a complete stranger for no reason. Clearly she’s interested. She is leaving on Sunday so I really only have tomorrow to make something happen. That’s where I am currently. I am asking for assistance because A. I’m fairly confident with girls but tend to overthink things and second guess myself B. I haven’t been involved with a woman so much older than me before C. I have a limited amount of time D. I am around my family which inevitably complicates things. I would not consult you, experts, unless I was completely sure I needed your help. This time I do and like I said before time is of the essence, so anyone give me whatever help you can as soon as you can.
Thanks in advance,
Cturnip1
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