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Hey Guys,
To summarize: met up on first date with this chick from Tinder (not for hookup purposes). Long walk on the beach. She has a vibrant personality, talked alot. I kinda messed up by not talking back as much because i was just awed by her jolly personality so i just let her do most of the talking. I guess it kinda backfired on my as i probably failed to build any interest on her behalf. Now i sense that from our post hang out SPAM convos.
What would be the best way to tell her something that can possibly still salvage/revive the interest back enough for more possible dates in the future.
Am i gonna sound like a wuss if i tell her that its been a while since i have dated (she's never dated!) and that if i didn't seem more open about myself it was because i was just simply enjoying your company or something?
In a way i kinda know what i am asking here is really pussy'ish of me but i am being candid about it so i can learn from my errors.
As always, all help/guidance/knocking-some-sense-in is appreciated!
You didn't not build interest because you weren't as jolly and talkative as she was. You didn't build interest because you just sat there awed and made no move. Its not about who talks the most. When I'm with some girls I do most of the talking, when I'm with others they do most of the talking. Personalities vary from person to person, but with all of them I almost make the bold move to kiss, touch, place my arms around them, look them confidently in the eye, and emit a frame/vibe that would suggest that I'm completely deserving of them, everything they could offer, and then some. I'm also fully aware of just how much of a benefit to their life spending time with me could actually be. Because of this I take little to no shit..
Its an attitude more so than an action that leads to women being attracted to you. But while you're cultivating the attitude you have to be bold and make a move.
Theres no "magic pill" text message to make all of your mistakes disappear and make everything better again. We live and we learn. Just tell her you want to see her again. Let her know theres some place you want to take her and then ask her when she's free. And this time around.. Just make sure you make a bold move to suggest that you're interested in more than just listening to her talk like one of her fan boys.
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