i cant find anything in the PUA forums of any deep phone game or anything involving texting.

i found a little bit in magic bullets

i dont have a problem with gaming in person, but when it comes to texting any HBs i crumble, and with phone game im the same.

can you call or text a HB too much or too little?

can anyone give me any advice on the basics?

thanks
big'O'

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Vic Vega

LMAO. It just happens that I've been texting AND on the phone with a girl tonight. Texting her to a near orgasm, and on the phone, contuining the process. But, I slowed it down, so we could just talk, lol.

Text game and phone game are not hard. Why do you fall apart? And, at what point do you fall apart?

I gotta be honest Tripp, this is a sticking point for me too. What methods are you employing in order to bring her to near orgasm?

Would be most interested.

Cheers

Texting is easier because it gives you time to actually think of something coherent to say.

I just started talking with this girl I just met. I push push push with the negs and C/F stuff, and the more I do, the more it gets her attention. My CF texts boarder on arrogance, but as long as you're funny, you can get away with it.

Right Billy.

Wilde, you start describing, just in little tidbits at a time, what you would do to her if she was standing in front of you right then. You'll start getting her hot, she'll want more, so you give her more. Before you know it, she's on the other end fanning herself because her body temp is so high.

Just be pretty explicit with details in the short space you have for texts. And don't spill everything at once. Leave her mind to wonder about what's next. Build the anticipation that way, but don't just drop it either. Keep throwing a little more and a little more at her throughout the day. And, when you're ready to turn up the heat, drop her a few more texts in a row. Within the space of just a few texts you can get a girl ready to jump you. Remember, be explicit and give her details of what you would do.

To me phone is a step up from text/email/IM etc...

I look at texting and calls in a reward system light. First off its been scientificlly proven that random rewards for a task are more effective then consistant rewards for the same task. In other words if you reward someone for something they do only part of the time they will work harder and do more in search of said reward, whereas if they know what must be done each time for a reward they will only do exactly enuff to gain said reward.

How does this apply to calls and texts? I see a girl responding to me or calling/texting me outta the blue as positive moves, i reward them, but only sometimes.

Oppositly if i call/text a girl and dont get what i want in return, i punish them by not being responsive (freeze out/take away).

Texting is the easiest because it allows you time to think. The best part of texting is the illusions you can create while texting (or by not texting). You can take time to respond to create the illusion your busy, or by not responding.

Phone calls require real time responses, so its a bit harder but at the same time tone and emotions can play in your favor.

So in long yes, you can call or respond too much.

As far as while on the phone, try talking while doing a mundane task (i try while doing laundry). This will give you something to do instead of worry while not keeping you from being able to think.

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its not necessarily that i fall apart, its the timing.

ive already been on two dates with this girl and things are going good, we're texting everyday, but most of the time its me texting her first, i dont know if that would mean im coming on too strong, but then again i feel like if i dont do it enough that i dont care.

i dont know, just thinking about it drives me crazy and i dont know why

thanks
big'O'

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Vic Vega

Ummmm, ok. First, why SHOULD you care? It's not like you're in a deep, long term, committed relationship with the girl.

Man, I'll go for a week straight w/o texting a girl even once. It doesn't matter. There are no strings, except in your mind.

Yeah, Tripp is right man. Unless you are in a committed one-on-one relationship where she's putting out, you damn well better not give a shit. It come's down to frame, she knows you will text first. So she goes with that.