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PostPosted: Fri Jun 10, 2016 11:30 am 
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Some times girls push for exclusivity or some kind of commitment after a month of seeing each other. If they do this way too early (after a few dates) I usually just brush it off with a joke. But at some point it’s a legitimate question on their part: to know what they can expect and not.

How do you guys handle situations like this?

My motto is to be honest, transparent and not give any false hope or false expectations. However, you always got to suger coat it a bit, if you want to keep seeing them.

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PostPosted: Fri Jun 10, 2016 1:12 pm 
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girl i am seeing now started bringing topic of caring about me,she was talking with a friend of mine who has a crush on her,she told that she told him that she cares about me no matter how it ends,i didn't got into a debate about it,i told her not to loose her nerves about it,she said she isn't,but that she feels a bit uncomfortable since we all started to hang around together but that she doesn't stresses about it,a told her that i don't take those things personally and not that serious(him hitting on her)and i added that i also had 1 night stands and am still ok with those girls,she said she just wants to be friend with him and that she doesn't wants to be anybody's on just 1 night,i told her that i"m not with somebody for 1 night and never to hear from me again,unless they"re assholes,then she said something about girls who do 1 night stands are sluts and that she doesn't sees as she has been rejected,i told her not to worry,and that i didn't rejected her,added that i only reject shallow goats,she said ok maybe i said it wrong,but she respects that i am clear about it not wanting anything more then what we have now,if you"re ok with,she will be also


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You are doing fine. Just be okay that she will eventually leave to look for something solid. That is the name of the game.

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Some times girls push for exclusivity or some kind of commitment after a month of seeing each other. If they do this way too early (after a few dates) I usually just brush it off with a joke. But at some point it’s a legitimate question on their part: to know what they can expect and not.

How do you guys handle situations like this?

My motto is to be honest, transparent and not give any false hope or false expectations. However, you always got to suger coat it a bit, if you want to keep seeing them.
All about honest intentions, which is far removed from sugar coating anything


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