Started talking to an old friend of mine a HB7, that I slept with a couple of times in the past (3months+).

Gamed her and she came to my apartment last night, everything went smoothly and she initiated "let's go to bed"... In the bed we made out heavily, she's only in her pants now... Touched her everywhere but as soon as my hands were down in her panties I faced serious LMR.

"it's not a good idea", backed off made out and tried again 5-7 min afterwards, again "not a good idea" or "it needs to stop"... This happened several times.

I know she wanted it, she told me she was horny af, I know she was wet as hell, she grabbed my dick so I was really confused at this point.

It ended with I was rather irritated for playing with me and then stopping me when I progresses. I asked if I should order a cab for her (prob bad move). She wasn't too happy with this.... However she slept at my place and left when I had to go to work the morning after....


Now I need advice on how to recover this, perhaps with a text/call. I think lmr accured because she didn't wanna be used for sex, but she also told that this was a no strings attached kind a thing. I probably over escalated during the lmr fase.

Hey man don't sweat it, women do that shit all the time it could be for multiple reasons. If she was in bed with you it means she is into you.

Since you've already slept with her before it's not from fear of you or sex with you. I'm willing to bet it is either she wasn't feeling fresh down below, possibly close to her pms time...or something along those lines.

The best way to find out is to casual ask her the next time you talk to her.

The main thing to know is if she was comfortable enough to stay over and do heavy petting, lack of interest is not an issue.

So don't see it as rejection see it as a woman being a woman.

It could of been a multitide of reasons all under the shadow of not feeling fresh/clean. Or she promised herself no sex for whatever reasons.

I suggest if you make plans to hang out with her again. You bring up sex before she comes over. Do it casually and just mention how horny you got last time and how bad you got blue balls(etc) the next day. And you don't want that to happen again. So you'd like her to let you know in advance so you can avoid getting that horny again.

Some women are stupid and don't anticipate sex....it's best to give her a chance to prepare for it by making your intentions clear to her. Then if she is coming to hang out, she knows what's going down.

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Don't worry about it. Don't even think about it or mention it.

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As far as recovering, just send her a message saying you had a good time with her and you'd like to hang out again. Don't worry about the sex thing....women know men want to fuck them, in fact they'd probably be more insulted if you didn't try. So never apologize for being a man.

If you really think the LMR was more of a psychological reason then a physical one, it's in your best interest to engage her in conversation and casually bring it up to find out. Communication is key and women love that.

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nice save ^ The text is pretty much just reinforcing the good vibes.


Women are like that all the time. Don't be a chump and act all frustrated or pissed when it doesn't go your way. Just be relaxed and laid back about sex. Girls are insecure, even the most cnfident ones. Just let them be women and you be a man. A rock that doesn't crumble when you meet resistance. Women are just the waves that splash on you.

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Yep, exactly this.

EXPECT resistance, it'll come. It's intended so the woman doesn't feel cheap or sleazy after all nobody wants nobody wants to come easy.

Sex is one of women's last bargaining chip before all the cards are placed on the table. They want it, sure, equally as bad if not more so than most guys but they're also fearful of how they may feel after as they're exposing their vulnerability - if his interest dwindles post-coutius then she'll feel like shit (unless she's a ho).

Resistance is a great opportunity to build attraction further simply take 1 step back for every 2 forward. It'll gain you points in terms of she seeing you're a main who can restrain himself/control his impulses, AND respect her. Resistance isn't rejection, women are just applying the brakes a bit but in their minds they want to be ravaged without having to worry about consequences which take them out of the moment.

That said, if a woman says "NO" don't be an effing idiot and try force something. That can be tantamount to rape.