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n2thevoid
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For example I approach a girl at hot yoga after a workout and say hey good job, but after a short "thanks" there is no opening for a conversation. because she just walks away into her locker room lol.
This is what I was asking for...more detail.

Your opener is lazy and it only allows for a "thanks" unless you follow up. Why not ask how long she's been doing hot yoga or how often she works out? You don't introduce yourself and don't ask what her name is. When you approach, it is your responsibility to get her to talk and not look or openings.
Ok, it was still in the yoga room when I told her that, I walked outside in the lobby but instead she just walked into her locker room without stopping by. Women are super standoffish out here I dont get it
Are they "standoffish" or just not entirely responsive?
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How about men outnumbering the woman here 3 to 1? I feel that is one reason because they just have options out the ass lol

I need to know what can make a guy creepy even if he is good looking? Could you throw any examples of that? Because women will never tell me

Arent women 49% in Alaska?

Highly doubt its 3 to 1 and thats not what I'm seeing online. Even if it were 3 to 1, a good looking guy is a good looking guy. Unless its 3 to 1 and every guy is a male model. I highly doubt the demographics are the reason for your responses.

By creepy I mean more awkwardness. Nervous, not confident. Even then, if you were slightly nervous, you'd still get a decent amt giving you a chance.
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women are shy. women are cautious when approached by a random guy at a random place. unless she is a ts, you're going to get some resistance.
did you expect her to say "let me give you a blow job in the locker room" as soon as you said "nice job"?
you need to lead her where you want. unless she is a ts, she is not going to lead.
and it's a numbers game. 95% of women are just not interested in meeting a random guy. so it's your job to find the other 5%
and you need to be more persistent. sometimes women give you a soft rejection to see how bad you want them. you need to keep pushing a little more after the soft rejection until you get a hard rejection.
and you know what? approaching random women IS weird. it's something most men don't do.
Not true.

A lot of how women respond has to do with your vibe. If you're sending out anxious energy for example they may not realize you're shy and attribute it to something else, blaming you for making them in turn feel uneasy with that energy. Only way around it is to practice practice practice until you become more at ease in talking to random attractive women.
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How about men outnumbering the woman here 3 to 1? I feel that is one reason because they just have options out the ass lol

I need to know what can make a guy creepy even if he is good looking? Could you throw any examples of that? Because women will never tell me

Arent women 49% in Alaska?

Highly doubt its 3 to 1 and thats not what I'm seeing online. Even if it were 3 to 1, a good looking guy is a good looking guy. Unless its 3 to 1 and every guy is a male model. I highly doubt the demographics are the reason for your responses.

By creepy I mean more awkwardness. Nervous, not confident. Even then, if you were slightly nervous, you'd still get a decent amt giving you a chance.
lol come to where I'm at its about 7 or 8-1 women to men, its crazy.
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For example I approach a girl at hot yoga after a workout and say hey good job, but after a short "thanks" there is no opening for a conversation. because she just walks away into her locker room lol.
This is what I was asking for...more detail.

Your opener is lazy and it only allows for a "thanks" unless you follow up. Why not ask how long she's been doing hot yoga or how often she works out? You don't introduce yourself and don't ask what her name is. When you approach, it is your responsibility to get her to talk and not look or openings.
Ok, it was still in the yoga room when I told her that, I walked outside in the lobby but instead she just walked into her locker room without stopping by. Women are super standoffish out here I dont get it
Are you really serious?

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Ok, it was still in the yoga room when I told her that, I walked outside in the lobby but instead she just walked into her locker room without stopping by. Women are super standoffish out here I dont get it
Are you really serious?
Sounds social awkward/retarded.
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Well, maybe you can talk about how much seattle has changed. How this place seems different etc. Ask for opinions on certain things. What's a good place to eat at etc. Use the fact that you're new to your advantage. If you think the convo is getting good then at some point ask her to show you around a bit exchange numbers etc.
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First off IDGAS. I don't give a shit. IDGAS if people don't like that I approach women. IDGAS if the women think it is weird. Just do it. That "Good Job" comment is lame. Worse than saying nothing. I do a lot of indirect approaches. But I am wimping out when direct is called for. So even though you aren't supposed to compliment a woman, am I going to say fuck it. I'll direct with Hi, I am Marty. What is your name? Sue? Nice to meet you. You are so attractive. Technically, not the proper thing to do. But beats the crap out of "Nice Job". I mean, that IS creepy. It means you have been watching her. And then all you tell her with nice job is, I have been watching you. Yeah. That IS creepy. And very Beta to boot.
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How about men outnumbering the woman here 3 to 1? I feel that is one reason because they just have options out the ass lol

I need to know what can make a guy creepy even if he is good looking? Could you throw any examples of that? Because women will never tell me

Arent women 49% in Alaska?

Highly doubt its 3 to 1 and thats not what I'm seeing online.
Hey, he could live in one of those logging camps where it's literally 3 guys and 1 woman... ;)
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