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PostPosted: Mon May 16, 2016 5:33 pm 
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So met up with this girl from a dating app. I'm 32 she is 34. She works a lot so isn't a big texter, also is foreign so is generally more blunt. Went to a bar near her place had 2 drinks. The conversation flowed lots of IOIs ( she complimented me, kept touching me), went outside when she had a cig and kissed her came back in talked more. Then she said she had to go work on some hw. She had alluded to meeting again but didn't outwardly say it Kissed her more before I left. As I was walked back I texted her that I had a great time, and would like to hang out again. She responded I had a really nice time thank you. Then I followed up with would you like to hang out this week. No response, none today

Generally I wouldn't text back this fast, but nothing about me in general before made it look like I was needy. She kept mentioning how she thought I was cool She's just not a big texter, pretty busy as people in my city are so thought it would be good to schedule a time next week. She seems pretty blunt so I would be really surprised if she didn't have a good time, and she isn't a big dater.

Thoughts? Give it a little bit and reach out?


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PostPosted: Mon May 16, 2016 6:42 pm 
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Then she said she had to go work on some hw.
Why didn't you make a move?

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PostPosted: Mon May 16, 2016 7:08 pm 
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I did we were making out


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PostPosted: Mon May 16, 2016 7:12 pm 
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I did we were making out

Did you try to take it past the makeout?

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PostPosted: Mon May 16, 2016 7:54 pm 
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Yea she had to go but seemed into it. My question is what to do next?


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PostPosted: Mon May 16, 2016 8:14 pm 
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Yea she had to go but seemed into it. My question is what to do next?
She wanted you to push further.
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she isn't a big dater.
She doesn't need a shitty steak from Denny's. She needs some cock.

Come up with a simple meal you can make at home. Or pizza.

"Hey (harlots name here) I'm getting a pizza later, come over and help me eat it so my ass doesn't get big. I picked up Leinenkugel's, bring wine!"

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PostPosted: Mon May 16, 2016 8:21 pm 
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PostPosted: Mon May 16, 2016 10:36 pm 
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Ok it didn't happen on date one trying to see how to proceed . She hasn't responded to me about meeting again


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PostPosted: Mon May 16, 2016 10:39 pm 
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Yea she had to go but seemed into it. My question is what to do next?
She wanted you to push further.
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she isn't a big dater.
She doesn't need a shitty steak from Denny's. She needs some cock.

Come up with a simple meal you can make at home. Or pizza.

"Hey (harlots name here) I'm getting a pizza later, come over and help me eat it so my ass doesn't get big. I picked up Leinenkugel's, bring wine!"
Nope.

She saw his hungriness for pussy so she took a step back. Too fast is not very good. Op should not wrote a essage right after. She took that as needy sign. What op should do is wait till she contacs again.

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PostPosted: Mon May 16, 2016 11:44 pm 
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I didn't act hungry for pussy on the date . I just asked to chill none of that hey how are you, how was your day that's it. Liked agirl offered to see her again


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PostPosted: Mon May 16, 2016 11:50 pm 
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I didn't act hungry for pussy on the date . I just asked to chill none of that hey how are you, how was your day that's it. Liked agirl offered to see her again
you pushed for the date right after that. Experience talks, quit it. Yea i fucked it up a couple of oppurtunity in my past, which i had oppurtunity for something more. Learn from your mistakes. At least wait for a day before you call, let her miss you otherwise you have difference other tinder dicks.

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Yea she had to go but seemed into it. My question is what to do next?
She wanted you to push further.
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she isn't a big dater.
She doesn't need a shitty steak from Denny's. She needs some cock.

Come up with a simple meal you can make at home. Or pizza.

"Hey (harlots name here) I'm getting a pizza later, come over and help me eat it so my ass doesn't get big. I picked up Leinenkugel's, bring wine!"

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"Harlot"???????? Just curious, do you dress like the planters peanut guy and pick your dates up on a Velocipede?


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PostPosted: Tue May 17, 2016 12:46 am 
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Though this girl says she is blunt and doesn't date often or is a serial dater. Even if it was a little too eager just completely disappearing seems a bit weird


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Yea she had to go but seemed into it. My question is what to do next?
She wanted you to push further.
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she isn't a big dater.
She doesn't need a shitty steak from Denny's. She needs some cock.

Come up with a simple meal you can make at home. Or pizza.

"Hey (harlots name here) I'm getting a pizza later, come over and help me eat it so my ass doesn't get big. I picked up Leinenkugel's, bring wine!"

....

"Harlot"???????? Just curious, do you dress like the planters peanut guy and pick your dates up on a Velocipede?
Of course good sir.

Slut seemed over the top.

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The chances are good that she'll probably hit you up in a few days; but being that you're making a post about this so soon I'd assume you are far too invested too early to not sabotage it anyway.

Second man, I find for a guy to say " I had a really great time" immediately after a date to be extremely feminine. Actions speak louder than words, and if a great time was had that would be said without it having to be outwardly verbalized. Just chill out man. Let her do that. You can contact her the next day if you want. Only the same day if the vibe was hot fiery, but as a general rule give the emotions of the date time to breathe.

If she doesn't hit you up, just take it as a lesson learned. Don't make too much of it. Sometimes you'll have a good date and still not hear from the girl. You never know what someone is going through. Its all apart of the game.

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