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I have literally read this 5 times and still confused.
I'll make this simple
If what you want is:
a) A sexy picture from her
Ok, thats kinda a long way to get a picture of a chick by helping her with her resume. Its crazy to me if youd want a picture that bad to help and throw away the chick over a picture
b) Sex
In that case, just invite her over.
Nothing you're saying makes sense. A picture isnt worth all this. Sex doesnt require a picture to be sent. You talk abt reestablishing the flames, I dont know if you honestly think that getting a girl to send you a pic begrudgingly makes her wet. Why are you throwing up a hoop for a chick you banged, who you assumed attraction with in the first place? You would really throw away a "good company female friend" because she doesnt send you a picture? Man you are making shit way too crazy and trying to game in this weird way. I'm literally confused as fuck what kinda game you're playing.
maybe my english is bad.
a picture cost nothing and only takes about 2 min. like i mentioned to her..next time u take a selfie, just take off some clothes. simple as that
i dont have to make her wet, she's a slut. she is always wet
im throwing a hoop because she has flaked before and now asking for a favor. so like a previous comment said, "i'm setting a bar for her"
i can take the risk of throwing away this female because for the past year she has been nothing besides a chat buddy. something that is easy replaceable
to try and clear up some of your confusion. i have placed myself somewhat in the friend zone. or orbiter zone. which is why she is here asking me to update her resume. im i the only one that see's this as a frame test?
why ask me to do something she can do herself or get someone else to do. so to maintain my fwb "we can be friends but only if we fucking" frame, i'm throwing that sexual hoop in.
Ohhh....she flaked on you and you dont think she will fuck you again.
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So im going to assume attraction. Cuz she can ask anyone to help her find a job.
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i have placed myself somewhat in the friend zone. or orbiter zone. which is why she is here asking me to update her resume. im i the only one that see's this as a frame test?
The way you made it sound was like she was dtf.
That being said, you shouldve still just invited her over. What if she had sent the pic. Then you do her resume.
Then what?
She jumped through your hoop, but you'd still be nowhere. The thing even with "hoops" is you just dont throw them to throw them. This hoop gets you no closer to sex.
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You've assumed attraction, as you should have, so there was no reason to do this tactic. Your compliance demand is blown way out of proportion. You would have done much better with something that got you and her in the same room. That is your real goal, isn't it?
I assumed that you assumed attraction as you said, but if you're assuming she's just using you for the resume help I dont know why youd say you assumed attraction, nor why a hoop would really matter.
The whole frame test thing is moot unless you're planning to do something. I still have no idea why guys try to pass tests that dont help them get laid, nor even put them in the vicinity of the girl. Do you see how passing a test, over instagram, accomplishes nothing with this girl besides making her comply to something, get her resume done, and she moves on.
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