I was at dinner with her the other day, and she told me she was strongly considering becoming a stripper at a new place that just opened up and was looking to hire. She wants to quit her job right now and do it over summer. Her main reason is because she heard it pays really well. She has a small interest in learning how to pole dance. She is also 18 years old.

She brought it up to me because we are dating, and she said that if I'm not comfortable with it, then she won't do it but she does want to.

This is causing me some inner conflict.

I don't want to hold her back from things she wants to do. However, I realise that a lot of guys will be checking her out. A bit of me doesn't like that idea, but a bit of me also feels like I shouldn't mind if other guys are checking her out because I trust her a ton. I am also a somewhat worried for her safety.

I would appreciate any incite you guys could give me on this whole scenario. Or how you would react in this kind of situation.

Ifs she good looking she will make some decent cash. People age, however, and no one wants to see an old lady strip. Figure out a good way to invest the cash she makes so she doesn't have to do it for long.

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if this is strongly against your morals, dump her. sounds like you're under scarcity if you hold onto her despite how uncomfortable you are with her. either that or you could talk your way into finding other alternatives to generate income.

i've dated a former stripper when we first met three years ago. she was batshit crazy, though, so i left her. but i'm sure i would've still dated her because of my scarcity.