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PostPosted: Sat Apr 16, 2016 11:02 am 
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Hi guys so long story short i was hanging out with these girls last week four Asian girls that stopped me in the street and wanted me to take them to the beach. So we all seemed to get alone pretty good but there was one girl who was really into me who wanted to meet up for dinner after so we all went and got food and went back to the beach. I did post a thread called Did i stuff this up? further down the page for the full story if your interested.

So anyway this girl wanted to hang out again and i cant seem to get her to wanna meet up again. I saw her in the supermarket with some guy I dont think it was her bf because she said she was looking for one i'm pretty sure he was just a friend. But when she saw me she kinda looked away quickly so i ignored her. About 5 mins later she send me a message saying hi i just saw you. So we kinda started talking again and now shes ignoring me again. So i just wanna know based on the screenshot what am i doing wrong? i know im kinda coming on strong but this was because she said twice that we should hang out again.

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PostPosted: Sat Apr 16, 2016 2:07 pm 
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Hi guys so long story short i was hanging out with these girls last week four Asian girls that stopped me in the street and wanted me to take them to the beach. So we all seemed to get alone pretty good but there was one girl who was really into me who wanted to meet up for dinner after so we all went and got food and went back to the beach. I did post a thread called Did i stuff this up? further down the page for the full story if your interested.

So anyway this girl wanted to hang out again and i cant seem to get her to wanna meet up again. I saw her in the supermarket with some guy I dont think it was her bf because she said she was looking for one i'm pretty sure he was just a friend. But when she saw me she kinda looked away quickly so i ignored her. About 5 mins later she send me a message saying hi i just saw you. So we kinda started talking again and now shes ignoring me again. So i just wanna know based on the screenshot what am i doing wrong? i know im kinda coming on strong but this was because she said twice that we should hang out again.

http://apr.imghost.us/rNvZ.png
http://apr.imghost.us/rNwg.png
http://apr.imghost.us/rNxI.png
http://apr.imghost.us/rNxr.png
http://apr.imghost.us/rNyp.png
http://apr.imghost.us/rO3Q.png
so did not have balls to go there and say hi. you deserved to be ignored. Even it could be her bf , u should have met the guy. She saw while you hesitate but had to ball to say hi. Be direct next time and say hi babe how have you been?

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PostPosted: Tue Apr 19, 2016 10:36 am 
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You talk too much bullshit. Quit asking how she is, how her weekend is, how her life is and how her dog is doing. You don't care about that.

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PostPosted: Tue Apr 19, 2016 8:50 pm 
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You can't talk to girls like they are your guy friends. You are blabbing far too much and her brain will get bored of your long ass messages. Keep it short, sweet and cocky for now.

The frame is also wrong. You are acting as though you have no value. She is pulling you along. Just ask her if she wants too meet up, and if she doesn't comply or give an alternative show some self respect and move on to another girl.

If you forget about her she might just message you further down the line. If she doesn't, so what.


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PostPosted: Tue Apr 19, 2016 11:58 pm 
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What's with all the god damn smiley faces? I thought I was reading texts from a clown.

you did the right thing by asking her out right away. She didn't bite. Ignore her and move on, maybe hit her up in a month.

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PostPosted: Wed Apr 20, 2016 9:26 am 
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R.C. told you everything you need.
Start flirting with her (you're not her friend to have an interest in her day, you want to make the sweet love with her, not fluff talk) and showing sexual intention, preferably when you meet through body language, otherwise through text.


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PostPosted: Wed Apr 20, 2016 11:00 am 
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Dude, be direct and don't beat around the bush.

Your time is too valuable, if she suggested that yall hang out, than make that shit happen

I would suggest saying something like "Hey I'm going to play pool at the bar, care to join?" or something of the sort.

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She's talking to someone, but finds you interesting and so she's keeping you around as an orbiter. Giving you just enough to keep you without compromising what she has going on.

If she wanted to see you she would've.

Read this: pua-lounge/topic190620.html and make a decision.

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PostPosted: Sat Apr 23, 2016 7:04 am 
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Thanks for the honest reply guys. I have to let this one go she posted of fb the other day about how she has a new bf hes ugly as fuck though. I did see her again today actually and i saw her checking me out through the reflection on the windows but i didn't go up to her because she still hasn't replied from last time so i might hit her up again in a few weeks or something. It seems like every time she sees me in person she gets interested again. Not meaning to be cocky or anything but i'm apparently an attractive fit guy so if i could just get her to meet up at the club or something my chances would be a lot better but theirs plenty of girls around i'm not just gonna focus on her.


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