Hi! I'm new to this forum and new to women as well: roll:

I am 18 years old and I would think of myself as a least a 7 on the scale but I always had problem to get a girlfriend... The thing is I don't want to lose my virginity on a one night stand, it just would not feel right. But the time is running out, all my friends fuck both with girlfriends and "one night stands" and I 'm NOT.

I recently meet this girl that I like, she goes in my class and seems quite found of me but not very interested. That's the problem I know she likes me but I always have to lead the conversations or decide what we should do, so it's hard for me to ignore her or neg her because it does not get to her attention... We have now a one week break at our school and I don't know if I dare to ask her out. Normally I don't care if a girl reject me (not that I ever asked a girl out, but at clubs and places like that) but I LIKE this girl and she goes in my class so it could be really embarrassing.

Please does anyone have good advice on how I could approach her? A smart way to ask her out? If it is better to go and play some pool, take her to a movie or take some drinks at a bar?

I would be grateful for every advice

Thank you


Sorry if my english is bad (i'm from Sweden )

my man!! u have everything rite u just have to get some balls and be confident. It doesnt matter wat u invite her to do, jsut something that u guys can talk and u can use or mouth, or anyhthing that ur good at and u can dhv.
I would recommend coffe and the whole time tell her stories about ur self anything funny or exicitng thats happen to u and exagerate!! haha and dont neg her, TEASE HER!! ABOUT ANYTHING! the way she drinks the coffe any time she makes a funny noise or makes a grammar mistake when shes speaking or anything... u have to observe u know... if she is trying to cover a pimple (acne) or her nose or something jsut tease her playful... that usually goes into kino cus she push ur or something after awhile and u push her back
and than babies are made haha.

Ive got a few questions

1, How long have you known her (that might have been in your post but my short term aint what it used to be)

2, If she would talk about you what are you: A) a friend or B) a guy she knows?

If you decide to ask her out make it casual mate rent a boring movie, something you'll be sure she'll hate that way she has to talk to you, might consider some wine, make sure its a sweet wine..hmm I recomend Cinzano its playfull.

So lets break this down; boring move sweet wine= laid

good luck!