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PostPosted: Mon Mar 21, 2016 8:49 am 
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Ok, do any of you have experience dating girls who are not really matched with you physically. I'm not talking overweight or really ugly, just plain janes and average girls the 5-6/10 girls. When you are around a 7-8 in comparison.

Is it easier to keep them for a long term relationship?

Are they more eager to please?

Are they less effort than the hot ones?


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 21, 2016 8:54 am 
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PostPosted: Mon Mar 21, 2016 10:45 pm 
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Like Arch said, yes to all.

They're also way easier to get over to your house for no strings attached sex on the first date. I won't even take these girls out, if they want to meet, they're coming to my house to have sex. In exchange they get the following: Amazing sex, cuddling, sleep in my bed with cuddling, and conversation.

Funny enough, sometimes these girls won't text or call you the next day. I've asked my hotter female friends about this, and every one of them says it's because I'm out of their league. They say that with my lifestyle; my spotless bathroom, my fancy assed shaving routine, my perfect closet, my expensively decorated house, rolex, etc (all of these things are superficial, please don't take this as bragging about game), as well as my looks, these girls know they can't have me, that I'm a man whore, that I'm out of their league, so they back off very quickly.

The girls who text back/call back immediately are always girls who are matched with my looks.

Anyway. Yes they'll be easier to keep for a long term relationship, if you want to settle. I wouldn't. Believe it or not, there are girls out there with "ugly duckling syndrome" who are insanely fucking gorgeous, and have no clue they are. These girls are just as easy to keep in a long term relationship. They are a 9 or 10 (at least in your eyes), but act like a 5 or 6.

They're way more eager to please you, if you give them the time to do so. I "dated" a girl recently who was probably a 6. I liked her because her personality was the shit, the sex was pretty good, and she cuddled hard as fuck (I love cuddling). Anyway this girl, the first time I met her, bought my dinner. The second or third day she came over to my place, I told her I was hungry, and she brought me so much fried chicken I could barely walk after. I went to take a shit, and she was in my kitchen doing my dishes.

The bad side to that: I told her like I tell every girl, I am not monogamous, I want to fuck other girls. She was "okay" with it in the context that I'm out of her league and she wouldn't want to lose my attention, so she will take what she can get; in other words she's not actually okay with it. So when I would fuck another girl, she would get drunk and fuck another guy out of spite to get back at me. She'd make it obvious by sending me pictures of the dude, talking about how hard she got fucked, etc; all things to try and make me jealous, all of which didn't work.

Anyway yeah they're less effort for the most part. They're just easier to deal with but they can definitely be emotional train wrecks.


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PostPosted: Tue Mar 22, 2016 5:52 am 
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Like Arch said, yes to all.

They're also way easier to get over to your house for no strings attached sex on the first date. I won't even take these girls out, if they want to meet, they're coming to my house to have sex. In exchange they get the following: Amazing sex, cuddling, sleep in my bed with cuddling, and conversation.

Funny enough, sometimes these girls won't text or call you the next day. I've asked my hotter female friends about this, and every one of them says it's because I'm out of their league. They say that with my lifestyle; my spotless bathroom, my fancy assed shaving routine, my perfect closet, my expensively decorated house, rolex, etc (all of these things are superficial, please don't take this as bragging about game), as well as my looks, these girls know they can't have me, that I'm a man whore, that I'm out of their league, so they back off very quickly.

The girls who text back/call back immediately are always girls who are matched with my looks.

Anyway. Yes they'll be easier to keep for a long term relationship, if you want to settle. I wouldn't. Believe it or not, there are girls out there with "ugly duckling syndrome" who are insanely fucking gorgeous, and have no clue they are. These girls are just as easy to keep in a long term relationship. They are a 9 or 10 (at least in your eyes), but act like a 5 or 6.

They're way more eager to please you, if you give them the time to do so. I "dated" a girl recently who was probably a 6. I liked her because her personality was the shit, the sex was pretty good, and she cuddled hard as fuck (I love cuddling). Anyway this girl, the first time I met her, bought my dinner. The second or third day she came over to my place, I told her I was hungry, and she brought me so much fried chicken I could barely walk after. I went to take a shit, and she was in my kitchen doing my dishes.

The bad side to that: I told her like I tell every girl, I am not monogamous, I want to fuck other girls. She was "okay" with it in the context that I'm out of her league and she wouldn't want to lose my attention, so she will take what she can get; in other words she's not actually okay with it. So when I would fuck another girl, she would get drunk and fuck another guy out of spite to get back at me. She'd make it obvious by sending me pictures of the dude, talking about how hard she got fucked, etc; all things to try and make me jealous, all of which didn't work.

Anyway yeah they're less effort for the most part. They're just easier to deal with but they can definitely be emotional train wrecks.
Well damn, i mean it's everything i hoped to hear. Guess this just becomes a question of whether I'm willing to settle. Whether you can be just as happy with less. The emotional train wreck part sounds like they could become obsessed with you easier. Much easier for them to make you their world.


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PostPosted: Tue Mar 22, 2016 9:13 am 
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This is just a sad topic for our community.

In a place where we're encouraging guys to move forward in life you're considering moving backward because "it's not as much work?"

Would you not rather get to a point in life where keeping a woman by your side doesn't involve "effort", regardless of her attractiveness?

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PostPosted: Tue Mar 22, 2016 10:09 pm 
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This is just a sad topic for our community.

In a place where we're encouraging guys to move forward in life you're considering moving backward because "it's not as much work?"

Would you not rather get to a point in life where keeping a woman by your side doesn't involve "effort", regardless of her attractiveness?
of course man, I'm just weighing up all of the options.


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Dating down is not an option.

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