Met a girl last saturday which i had an absolutely fantastic weekend with. We met through a group that went to the same festival and hit off really well. Continued the same routine on sunday and build up a lot of attraction by applying kino/negs (hand touching, rubbing / hugs / ...) etc.

We met up again yesterday but due to the situation being different (casual meetup after a harsh workweek with the same group) i couldn't get back the same energy we had on saturday/sunday. Because she was not as energized and talkative as the weekend before, i decided to ignore her for the most part of the night. I know for a fact that in these type of circumstances i can get too casual with girls and really fuck things up.
I spent most time that evening with my friends which was beneficial for my rapport building because they kept talking about my previous experiences years ago and also kept mentioning the meetups i had with girls, my girlfriends etc.. I'm normally neutral about it and laugh it off in a friendly manner but yesterday i sort of acknowledged them and felt i was becoming a bit more douchy. It was a defensive mechanism to somewhat impress her and give her the feeling i am succesful and that i didn't need her attention.

I did try to involve her quite a few times to not give her the feeling i'm truely an asshole but she would act different towards me, not neccesarily in a bad way, but more protective.
Instead of being a fun, lively, flirty guy, i suddenly became more of an asshole that flirts with tons of girls.


because she was so casual that night, and it was more of a friendly SPAM, i didn't wanna get caught up and beta myself into it. What else could i do to avoid certain situations since we do hang out a lot in a more casual manner.

Man...that sounds crazy...so...basically your asking how to not come off like an A-hole?
Basically what I am getting from you? One thing I would do if your feeling that vibe from
yourself...is you could always hang out with some other chicks for the time being

and try and get back to that girl like 1 week later...

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