Hi sir sorry to bother you guys, Im new to the comunity so i thought i would ask somebody more seasoned who may have ran into this problem before.

I have this girl in my life who told me she doesnt like me, but then goes and tries to rub on me. she is a bartender if that makes a difference.

She doesnt understand what i try to tell her, and sometimes she responds with "I dont know what to say to that" making me feel like she is only thinking about herself.

How do i crack this puzzle?

when i see her its not at her bar, i told her i liked her already, and we fight a lot because she doesnt understand what i tell her and takes it the wrong way

This is so vague, I understand why she has a hard time responding to you.

It's either you are taking her verbal communication as the truth or you are an orbiter. There is not enough detail to know which one it is.

You can do one of two things that I can think of from off the top of my head.
1. Back off and see if she comes to you, or
2. take advantage of when she's rubbing up against you and pull her in more.

If she doesn't respond to either of those, you are an orbiter. If she does respond quit taking what she says literally, quit telling her how you feel, and instead act on how you feel.

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Tell her you want the realtionship to only be about sex.

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You're already too nice.

Skip this bartender and go approaching women until you toughen your skin. Its not going to happen until you do that.

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Was thinking the exact same, everything about you is needy. Your even needy writing that post, from what you've said you seem somewhat creepy, your not even in a relationship yet and your arguing! the best thing you can do is go out in the field speak and experience new people.

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I can't imagine why she doesn't understand...

What are you even talking about here?