So I have not been paying too much attention to women lately, I have been busy moving into a new place. Didnt get much sleep last night, that was no help. I am eager to see how this new living situation helps me with the ladies. "wanna see my new place? Just moved in yesterday."



But anyway, on with the good stuff. While salsa dancing last week, I noticed, quite certainly, a former bang trying to catch my eye. We didn't exactly part on the best of terms, and I figured she would never wanna talk again, and so I shouldnt waste my time. I can be pretty cold hearted, and have seen her plenty, and have been ignoring her fairly solidly. It seems, however, that she is trying to get my attention. For a while now I have felt like she has always been trying to dance with other guys right next to me while I am dancing with another girl. I really have been trying to avoid her but she seems to always find a way to be around. Most recently I was just kinda taking a break from dancing at the club, and I spot her looking at me, almost invitingly. I really cant figure out why, last time we talked she told me she didnt want to be intimate any more and I said ok, and then I tried to bed her anyway (consensually of course) and she said she didnt want to talk any more so, ok, thats it, like, dont even look at me any more right? Why is she dancing next to me and looking at me invitingly? I am concerned she just wants to get me chasing her so she can feel validated. Fuck that, I have a mind to come up with some clever line to put her down next time I catch her looking.


So speaking of salsa club girls, I was dancing with this other girl, and man, did it get dirty. We are talking bachata's raunchiest closed position moves, her grinding her clit on my leg, my boner obviously smashed against her. There was a moment where I looked around and thought man, anyone watching us right now might be thinking we are fucking right then and there in the middle of all the dancers. So after a second song, I ask her if she wants to get some air outside as it is stuffy in here and she agrees. I lead her by the hand outside, and we talk for a bit. I am kinda too in the mood to spit any decent game, I am just looking at her thinking about how obvious our dancing just was and trying to come up with a way to keep the conversation going. I keep it going for about 10 minutes before Thinking maybe I should try to get her to come on a walk, and see if we can't find a place to grab a bite. She say's she is probably just gonna go back inside and dance some more. I tell her I got work early in the morning and I probably should just go home, so I get her number and called it a night. I have not called her yet, and that was last Wednesday.


And so I think this is my next major hurdle, the "what comes after you two have eye fucked/dance fucked each other" part, because when I am not dance fucking girls at salsa, I have been eye fucking girls at work, and man, am I starting to notice how this goes, cause I can see when a girl "gets it" that I wanna fuck her just when I look at her, and then she all starts self touching and hair flinging and eye fluttering etc. etc. and THEN I don't know the next steps. Cause Just like that girl I was dancing with I am like ready to bang on the nearby table with everyone watching, although that's not what she's ready for. I am at the point where, ok, I find a girl who is interested, but she is not ready, and I am not patient and/or have solid enough game to get there. My former bang was a lucky fluke and I am not quite sure what I was doing right. It was kinda rocky, not smooth as I would like it to be. I think we have to talk about some stupid random stuff so she feels like she kinda knows me enough to bang me, and of course its the talking part I stumble and fail with.