First I just want to say hi to everyone, this is my my thread on this forum and thanks in advance!

I am a 19 year old Chinese guy just starting college here in LA. Right now I think I am not starting very well in college as I feel like I don't give out a particularly positive vibe. I've been the sort of chill and relaxed person since the day I can remember, it served me quite alright except when it comes to social interactions. Sometimes when I try to talk to girls from class or social gathering etc. they just don't seem that engage to whatever we are talking about, even if the topic seems plenty interesting to me. Any idea about how to work on that?

Also, just a general question out of curiosity, where do you guys think the line between being direct to a target of interest and going too far too soon? (In other words what do you guys consider is over-investing in a potential target)

Stop jerking off and start lifting weights. That will help you give off much better vibes naturally.

Lol. Yeah.

Lift weights. Girls get horny around high testosterone guys.

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Approach. Open. Escalate. Isolate

Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

general-questions/topic137931.html

Also jump in the deep end and approach strangers where you're forced to be pro active. Instead of mincing around your social group playing it safe.

Get more independent, go traveling. Meet pick up wings, Put some hair on your chest and be immersed

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