So I met this lady 8 years ago while on vacation in a certain city. The night before we went home we had a conversation and as we parted this special bond seemed to ignite between us. I felt she was what I wanted. We kept in touch via social media and a few months later I learned she was actually married. The following year I went back and met her again and that Bond was still there. We were all hugs. It was another seven years before I saw her face to face again, this time when I actually moved to the city. Again it is there. Every time she sees me and every time we part she initiates a hug. I always go to her gigs and her husband is in her band. The other night when she came around with the tip jar, I was about to tip her and she said "you don't have to tip me just give me a hug". I tipped her anyway. I have met the husband and he seems fond of me and I think highly of him. Do you think she feels something toward me. I have no interest in breaking up the marriage but would jump at the opportunity to make love to her just once. Am I nuts? If not where do I go from here. Otherwise should I at least tell her i would pursue her if she was not taken. Maybe she could be my ally in helping me find the one for me.

Billions of girls, half of them are probably single...yet you're using energy for this one particular happily married girl??

It's worse that you ask this after you stated that you think highly of her husband. It's oneitus.

If you were ingrained into pickup. You would understand the abundance of it. Get in the trenches and meet single girls equally as cool or better.

I should really think you should keep this a friendship only IMO

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yeah, a lil too much thought into this one..don't be a homewrecker

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Dude... 8 years. For the love of...

Why? just why?

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