In short I want to sleep with this girl I use to see again. Stopped seeing her around 3 months ago. Been in contact on and off for ages. Last time we spoke she said she wanted to see me again and basically come over and spend the night. When I tried to arrange it she never replied and I didn't hear from her for 3 weeks. Last week I had my driving theory and she text me asking how I got on (Passed) , I didn't expect to hear from her as I told her ages ago and probably thought she would of forgot. Anyway we have been texting the last few days and she seems pretty keen. Long texts asking about me. I have a job interview in london and she was very interested to know if that meant I would be moving away. I would of defiantly suggested doing something again if it wasnt for the fact she ignored the suggestion las time we spoke.

Anyway my really question is how do I go about setting up seeing her so I can sleep with her, or at least maximise my chances? I dont really know how to go about it and given last time she never replied. this has me thinking maybe shes just after attention and validation. Im not against burning this to the ground so I either see her again or I dont. Im not interested In being her texting buddy and giving her validation and attention, Im only interested in seeing her again, how do I portray this to her without coming across as to needy or desperate?

Thanks for reading and any advice.

Have you already slept with her at some point? I can't tell based on what you've written...

"Sounds like you've got your hands full I'd like to see you so give me a shout when you're ready to meet"

Why waste your time, least this way you're drawing a boundary and will polarize her one way or the other.

Yeah slept with her before

The next time she texts you ignore it.

See if she opens a second time.

When you require more, you get more. Require she does more than just text you by being unresponsive to it. If she has any interest she'll try something new.

Also go read my post in the pua lounge section "Think Like A Woman, Act Like A Man" viewtopic.php?f=25&t=190620

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