Yeah man, what all these guys said. You're just a rookie probably. You look scared because you really like her. Girls will sense that a mile away and eat you up. You gotta disarm them using your charm and command their respect. Not demand it, command it. There's an old saying that 'you dictate how people treat you.' You let them treat you a certain way. But I'll tell you a good mid game is really important. You can go far with a good talk game. Talk about things that you both know about and can both relate to and make her laugh from a third party perspective. Spending time with her "as friends" is good dude. Don't ask her what you did wrong, like the other guys say you won't get a straight answer. Instead FIND OUT what she likes and then hammer home at those things. Utilize those things to put yourself in a funny light. PERFORM for her so to speak. Do your peacock dance. Dude try something, because she isn't buying that you're macho or you're an alpha or you believe you're a king like the dude above said. So be funny, be approachable, yet also be a little aloof and quiet. Look at her eyes and pause before you say something and when you say something to her say it with confidence and authority. She's hanging out with you, that's good. Now make her laugh, get her uncomfortable, joke about sex and the size of your dick, dude anything to make her have fun. If you can walk that tension line between fun and sex then you can get a girl into the sack. If for no other reason than she just likes to hang out with you and she'll wait for an alpha to come along while sleeping with you. I've seen it happen. I've done it myself. Charm and comedy. Use it. Try it. Try something different. But don't ask her what she thinks you did wrong. It won't work and will just ruin any chance you may still have, also it will make you feel sorry for yourself. Forget about what you think you did wrong. We already know you went too beta too quick. Now get some of your nerve back by being funny. Or be aloof. Don't answer her texts right away. Or answer the next day. SEEM BUSY. If it's a one way friendship, then just go for the gusto and joke about sex and drop sexual innuendo's. The worst she can do is think you're nasy and stop talking to you, it's going that way anyways. The best case scenario is she thinks you're funny, and you have a chance to fuck. Maybe drinks will help too.