Ever since I met this girl I've been playing the cocky asshole card. I feel like it's worked. She always playfully calls me an asshole and dick. So one day we went out with friends ended up coming back to my place. She was about to leave and then I hugged her went for the kiss and was denied. Ended up taking in the car for another 10 min and I Talked her into staying at my place that night but ended up only cuddling. Wouldn't kiss me at all. She left. Next day we hungout we went out again. We drank a lot ended up at my place again. We stated making out and still no further than that. So now I'm talking to her and we start talking about that night. She says if she was sober she still wouldn't have kissed me. And as shes driving home from an event she says things like "that's not gonna happen again" and I'm playing off the cocky asshole. I'm telling her things like it's just a kiss. Little things like that. From my perspective it seems like she wants to but she won't let herself do it. So is this one of those test that girls do? If so how should I act towards it now? I didn't get mad I just played it off like okay that's what you think, we'll see about that and said goodnight. She never really gave a distinct answer as to why it wouldn't happen again. She just say "because and it's not right" so what's my next move as far as this situation?

Don't argue with her. If she says 'we're not having sex' she's already thinking about it. Just agree, amplify and escalate.

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I dated this chick back in the day that did the same shit. Sore she wouldn't kiss me, then we kissed and she swore she wouldn't sleep with me.

She said " I Just see you as a guy that I can make out with"

Just a warning.. She's a waste of time and she'll sleep with you as soon as you realize it.

Ignore and plow through bro.

Her words only have power if you validate them by accepting them. I would of leaned in and kissed her again the moment she said that.

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So as far as my next move? Keep playing the cocky asshole or back off a little and not look desperate or needy?