Oh I've seen girls develop it more than on a few occasions... and it's almost never pretty
I'm not a girl, so I can't really speak for them on any significant level... But I'll tell you what I've experienced.
Girls do not think the same way us guys do when it comes to this "oneitis" stuff... When it comes down to it... they simply GIVE UP to damn easily. Not like us knuckleheads who have to keep on holdin' on and persisting... If a girl falls for a guy hard, and the guy lets her know it's "not gonna work out" she will usualy feel the crushed feelings we sometimes tend to, and then move on. Though I'm sure the feelings stay in limbo for quite a while... they just push it off to the back of their minds and accept it... Except for what I like to call "the crazies" they will set your clothes on fire and give away your shit to total strangers for free on the sidewalk
I think it's probable that a girl will develop a strong bond with a guy... but "oneitis" probably not so much... least, they do not deal with it the same way a guy typicaly would... IMO, as I've come to witness it.