Let me start off by saying that I am 100% capable of getting boners, but as soon as i throw the condom on and start thrusting away, I lose it.

At least recently with this new girl I am seeing.

We've met up 5 times. Two of the times we fucked, kind of.

Last night I was with her. I was a little nervous about what might happen because Ive never encountered this before (referring to the first time we had sex). Foreplay was going good, not super good for me, but she seemed to be enjoying herself. I find this girl to be very sexy and I am definitely able to get a rock hard boner when I am making out and going at it.

So I'm Super happy about my boner at this point and decide to strap up. Go right in, fuck for like a minute and boom its done. I literally cant feel anything with the condom on. No pleasure at all for me. I tell her a BJ might save the day, but shes weird about BJs and asks to cuddle instead.

Could it be that she does not turn me on enough? I dont think its a mental thing, bc I totally get boners all the time. No, i do not beat off everyday. I actually dont beat off at all anymore unless its like every 2 weeks or so. I like having the pent up aggression in my body.

I'd also like to add that previously I was in a LTR for about 4.5 years so I am obviously not used to condom sex.

Any thoughts or advice fellas? I know this girl likes me, but I am sure the situation will change if I am unable to properly fuck her. Also, I want to fuck the shit out of her.

Condom sex is awful man.

I completely relate. Sometimes you have to dive on in and cross your fingers lol.

But on a serious note, it doesn't sound like her vagina has any life to it. I've had this experience without condoms with women who have what I call " Dead vaginas". I'm usually not interested in sleeping with them anymore after that. Its sounds like this issue is making you a little insecure and desperate and in return you're developing more emotions for her than you would if the sex was working out in the way you wanted it to. Theres a "Challenge" here, there is something to accomplish and too many men falsely fall in love because of some silly challenge.

When you get a women with an "awoke" vagina you're dick will go up around her without having to make out.

It is a mind thing though, but she damn sure isn't helping. I dealt with on and off Erectile dysfunction for just under two years because of a situation like this. I couldn't keep it up for one girl while drunk and she made fun of me for it. It got to me because i liked her, and the problem would surface whenever I'd come in contact with a girl I actually liked. Without girls I liked i was always golden.

I then ran into a women who i liked who knew exactly what to do when it happened. She did her part and got me through it, I was fine from that point on.

So a portion of it is your mind, and another portion is her lack of sexual experience . Theres things she can do to help fix it. Sex takes two people not one..

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Yeah, you probably don't need to worry about the condom. If she's horny and you're persistent, she'll just let you skip it. Very few girls actually hold the line.

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Eddie I think you are right about her dead vagina because I have had successful condom sex before. I dont know if her vaj is all used up or maybe she just doesnt turn me on enough.

You are also right about the challenge and about me trying to take this thing further than it should go.

I also think that this is spot on. Thanks for the pep talk boys lol. I'll find another.