One of the issues I have with PUA techniques is that I feel like I'm being rude.

They work, to some extent, but is there a way to make this work without having to wonder if I'm being rude?

I'm a nice guy, a people person. Part of the reason I have friends is because I'm not constantly manipulating people.

I understand the concept that my company is a gift to whoever I give it to. This gives me confidence. This has probably been the most useful bit of information I have received on these forums. Before I got this advice, I felt like other people's company was a favor they were doing me.. No way.. I know my worth now. I'm cool as f*** and anyone I let hang around me is getting a favor.

Still, I don't feel like going out of my way to find fault with girls just to get them interested in me (negging). Maybe it works in a bar, but I feel like it doesn't work well at all in day situations.

What are my options?

Don't neg. Eddie.Fews and Chris Bale on here both preach methods that have nothing to do with canned openers/routines/gambits/neg theory..

Awesome. I already have kind of a deadpan, sarcastic personality, and negging really seems to make girls unhappy.

"Playfully teasing" is great, which is what I believe negging was supposed to represent. Although the way it has been interpreted and used by far too many has been to their detriment. Its all in the tone.

Girls tease me, I tease them, its all apart of flirting. Although the objective shouldn't be to bring someone down. Thats unnecessary. Its the philosophy of someone who feels they are "less than" the person they are talking to. On some level you have to acknowledge your superiority. Not in a negative way. Just in a, " I'm responsible for leading and protecting her" kind of way. That is the responsibility of a superior. A woman wants a man to dominate and take charge. That in itself is superiority.

Your teasing is suppose to make her laugh, smile, and/or make her hit you. Not lower ones self esteem. So if you're not fully confident in yourself, the ability to deliver what a "neg" is suppose to be will never come out in a way thats conducive for you or the chick you're talking to.

The trick is to make them better. Not bring them down.

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