Okay so let me just give you some background info… I have been friends with this girl for a few years….and I am only 18. Anyways I kinda started getting one-itus with her last year which was in my AFC days. Looking back she invited me over to here house, called/texted me all the time, and even took me to prom. But I was really shy and did not know how to close, so anyways things kinda fell apart and she got with this kid from my school. It pissed me off pretty good, so I really stopped hanging out with her, and texting her. This is when I learned about PUA and have started “change” at least from her perspective. It has been about 6 months and she has started texted me again saying stuff like she misses hanging out, and why don’t I text her anymore. I’ve been playing it C&F and saying stuff like “wow you’re so needy.” Anyway I feel like my game is solid to attract her if I can get her alone, but the problem is that her BF goes to my school and although I don’t like him (for obvious reasons), he hangs out with allot of my friends. My problem is anytime I see her at parties, the BF or my friends are there so it makes it extremely difficult to “maneuver” if you know what I mean…..lol.
So my question to you boys is how do I isolate her, without (a)my friends or her boyfriend finding out, and (b) her thinking its weird or awkward that I would ask her to a BF/GF situation especially since we have had minimal contact for such a long time?
Thanks boys…..
*So far my only thoughts have been to ask her to help me shop for clothes for me or my girl siblings but that still feels like she would think that is weird, but I thought about asking her best friend to tag along too, so its not too forward, but I really don’t know, need help thanks.
Art Vandelay

Ok, girls with boyfriends are my favourite! It makes the game so fun and makes it so easy to cut them off, you have the perfect excuse not to see them any more.

Firstly, I'd say be careful. When you've suffered from one-itis with someone it's easy to think you're over them, but then something happens and you get sucked in again. I'd say get another interest or 2 first. Some girls who you could use to distract you if you should get too sucked into her.

With regards to how can you isolate her and close. I'd suggest doing this...

Invite her somewhere where she wouldn't normally go and where none of your friends will be but where you feel comfortable. This helps in a couple of ways. You're unlikely to get caught, but mainly it means she's completely out of her normal world. If it's somewhere really different, she wont have set rules in her mind about how she should act there so you can play it and call the shots. It takes her out of 'her world' slightly too so she will find it easier to cheat on her bf.