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imperfections?
Like things you've done in the past that are bad. I'm not talking about something too criminal, but things like you weren't there for your sister or mom or whoever during a certain time when they really needed you and you feel bad for it. Or you are not what your parents wanted you to turn out to be. And so on and so forth.
Sometimes bad memories come up, so do you talk to your girlfriend about it or not? Also what if you're just dating is that a huge no no?
Yes you can. Whatever your imperfections are or whatever you've done that you regret, be better for it and tell her. Right now, your stories are just sadness. Probably not a good thing to tell most women. Do something. If you feel bad for not being there for your mom and sister you can say so, but include how you're now trying to make it up to them or be there for them. Telling a woman, "A few years ago, I wasnt there for my mom and sister through a rough patch, I feel bad about it...now I try my best to always be there for them. The other day my sister had a problem and I left work to be there for her." This communicates more strength than just saying nothing. You fucked up at something, you learned from it and you've changed. She even understands from that now that you're close to your family. If you're hiding an imperfection, its most likely because you've not moved on from it or are still hung up on it. Don't worry about what your gf thinks, just fix your stuff and you wont have to be ashamed.
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