I'm not sure if there is a better board to post this, but in any case I want some insight from the pros.

K here's the sitch. There's a high end 8, maybe a 9 that I'm chatting up on POF. I actually thought she was out of my league. Anyways, her title said ready to get hooked? So I said, Hooked on Phonics. She asked what's Phonics. And these messages ensued:

oneartsoul
1/11/2015 6:01:15 PM
LMAO. [link for hooked on phonics website] As far as I can tell you don't need it.

vserendipity
1/11/2015 6:08:59 PM
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lol children website


oneartsoul
1/11/2015 6:14:29 PM
You make it sound disgusting when you say it like that lol. It's a website FOR children to learn how to read.

vserendipity
1/11/2015 6:15:51 PM
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lol sorry

and thats cute


oneartsoul
1/11/2015 6:17:24 PM
Stooooop, you're gonna make me blush.

vserendipity
1/11/2015 6:19:03 PM
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do you teach kids how to read .. what do you like about it ?


oneartsoul
1/11/2015 6:21:20 PM
NO LOL. I didn't realize I give the impression of a teacher. My brother used that to learn to read when I was younger. I would make fun of him for it, and he would beat me up. Sibling love.

vserendipity
1/11/2015 6:26:32 PM
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aww thats cute


oneartsoul
1/11/2015 6:32:06 PM
Stooop. I told you, you're gonna make me blush. V, I'm really naive about these things, don't take advantage of me, OK? Cause a nice person doesn't do that.

vserendipity
1/11/2015 6:36:10 PM
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lol im not that kind of person don't worry


The last message is kind of a bummer... I think I over judged how I was doing with her. I don't know what to say next.

The next thing I want to say is, "Oh... that's boring."

Maybe just "That's boring" so it sounds more alpha.

Or, "That's no fun". I dunno, I always say stupid stuff and I'd really like some help here lol. Time sensitive.

Exactly what kind of person are you, and do I need to worry before we go much further?

I really dont see any bummer text here, your doing a good job of being playful, especially given her obvious low iq.

It's way too late. I burned; boy did I burn. But, there'll be more later. I couldn't wait too long to message her back cause it was already in a good rhythym.

After she said that I saw "Aww good girls are no fun"

and she said, "I guess... this is goodbye then"

And as a last shot, though kinda silly, I replied, "Oh you're making this such a romantic goodbye.... [wrote a 4 line poem that wasn't funny, but made a rather romantic goodbye]". I was kinda hoping she'd make a response after that and I could keep it going, but it died completely.

You're over investing.

And your messages and the fact that you made this post is sub communicating that you think she's out of your league.

You have to train yourself to devalue the pussy man. And the best way i've learned to do that is to have an amazing flow of conversation going with a girl online and then delete it and just never respond. You have to train yourself to see beautiful women as abundant in your life. Not many men have the ability to attract the highest quality women so there are a lot more of them than there are of you; especially in todays society.

Next time when you get responses from the girl you want delete it without opening it. Do this about 50+ times if it takes. You have to train your mind to stop seeing attractive women as valuably as you do. Go to the meet me section and just click " No" for an half hour. No matter what the girl looks like. Just click no. No woman is out of your league. You're an attractive charming male with a personality. She just looks good. As you saw, because the chick clearly had no personality. Not that you were interesting her enough for her to open herself up, but she didn't even have a surface personality. She didn't even choose her features. They were given to her at birth. So don't judge someone based off something that they didn't even select for themselves.

How can someone without a personality be out of your league? You're kidding. You have to practice getting them and letting them go man. Sacrifice today so you can have tomorrow. Letting go of a potential 9 today can guarantee you a 10 in the future. You have to be willing to take the risk and have faith. Thats how you develop your character.

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Beautiful post by Eddie, especially this part:
So true.

OP, adopting the abundance mentality that he is referring to would be the most amazing gift you could ever give to yourself.