I get it. I used to feel how you feel.
That neediness and desperation also leads to rationalizing a lot of weird shit in your head. It's not a nice place to be mentally. It makes you feel even more desperate because you start to feel entitled to shit at some point and makes you dehumanize women in a way.
Everything falls into place in a much, much better way for you mentally once you actually get ABUNDANCE. After I started getting laid I had the peace of mind knowing that I could have sex pretty much whenever I wanted (just like a hot girl) and it brought be to a much better place in my head. No more desperation. No more neediness. No more fucked up feelings of entitlement or insecurity for the most part.
I realize that telling you "have sex with a bunch of girls so you can stop being needy" doesn't exactly help. Your goal is to stop being needy so that you can have sex with a bunch of girls, right? Well, you have to put yourself in a mindset of abundance FIRST.
You have to know and truly understand and FEEL that "there are plenty of fish in the sea." You have to open your mind to the fact that there is practically an infinite number of opportunities for you with women out there. You just have to realize that you are not yet prepared to grab these opportunities, but that you definitely CAN make yourself prepared by learning and practicing the basic fundamentals of pickup (like I teach in
Attraction Arsenal).
Neediness fundamentally comes from a scarcity mentality, believing that the opportunities for you to connect with women are limited. Your journey in escaping neediness begins with a simple shift in mindset.
CHAT