So I've recently broken up from a LTR, at that time I really did nothing outside of work other then hang with my GF or stay home and play video games. I'm 25 years old at the moment.

Fast forward to now and I'm trying to keep myself busy with various activities and taking up hobbies now that I'm single. But I wanted some other peoples opinion on whether the lifestyle I'm leading would be considered attractive to the opposite sex, as I'm lacking a lot of confidence in myself at the moment. So as follows -

1. I work for a very well known Bank in a strategy type role in the head office (decent job for my age)

2. Outside of work I've just started Brazilian Jiu Jitsu (been wanting to for years, very passionate about MMA, or any Martial Arts)

3. I work out regularly as well (Weightlifting) though I'm not built by any means I'm still relatively skinny

4. I plan on travelling to Japan next year, and am currently teaching myself to speak Japanese

That's all I can really think of for now, any opinions on how I could make this work for me?

Sounds like a kind of average lifestyle to me.

The way i see your lifestyle is to be who you are personally and thrive off of it!

Dont do things to impress other people do it to impress yourself. For example i love extreme sports such as motocross and downhill biking. But i also love gaming and streaming for others to watch and i do that too. I work as a quantity surveyor and im only 22. So im in a well paid job and do things i enjoy !

If your happy in yourself people feel that vibe and are attracted to you.

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This seems like a meta supplication

Just get out of the house, do stuff that involves people. Jitsu and gym are great

Don't watch Tv , don't play games, and you will be good

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Yes, it is a good and attractive lifestyle. You seem to have your carreer career in check, you have some interesting interests (although since you are at it, you might as well go the whole way and try to get built) and you've got your dreams and illusions, which you are currently working on.

Then again, don't expect anybody to fall on their knees and adore you only because of your lifestyle. You still have to put in all the work. But you sound like a cool guy, and you seem to have a few cool conversation subjects there. So that is definetly a plus.

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Sounds cool man, but a woman cares more about how YOU feel about your lifestyle more so than how she feels about it. I know guys with half as much going on as you that still get laid relativity often. Because they're simply happy and content with what they have and as a result the women around them want to share in their happiness.

All in all a woman just wants to be loved and feel happy; and if you're currently happy and not seeking validation from other she will want to be happy with you and seek your validation.

Its not what you do its how you do it and its not about what you have, its about how YOU feel about what you have.

There are plenty of wealthy men that can't get laid with out paying and plenty of poor men getting paid to get laid. So just keep that in mind.

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