technically speaking its easier to just find another target than to mess with her,
its better to have several targets in the works, than just to hold out for one, cause essentially you are limiting your options.
if you still have your eyes set on this one then just figure out what type of person her bf is and become the opposite, find out whats missing in her life and provide it. but be aware that this can be dangerous and people have been killed for things like this.
personally i suggest finding other targets
good luck
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