it is one of my major sticking points.

i don't know what excuse to use to isolate the target from her group. my usual line is " i am going to run a personality test. I don't really want to give away the answers. so i have to do it separately on you guys."

the usual response is either "you can do it on all of us" or "we are good friends, we are inseparable."

i can hardly isolate a target unless she is very interested to me. Much appreciated for some tips

Honestly isolating a target might be good in some cases, but I find it to be lacking. I prefer an all-on social experience and not make it look like you're trying to pick her up...in that case it will look way more innocent when you do pull the number, you can always act as if her friends aren't there and just focus on her or you can use them as distractions for her...like give her great amount of attention and then move to the next and then work your way back that's what playing hard to get is all about. These are just some minor tips....I'm heading out right now so was in a hurry...kind of sloppy, but it's still very, very accurate and works time after time...besides it seems anything is going to work better than what you were working with before...no offense man...I mean only best wishes...

ALSO ANOTHER FUNNY TACTIC is if they say they are inseparable or do it on all of us....you could pull a tactic out and say...."Really? I can only imagine all the other things you do all together" (say this with a LITTLE BIT of a sexy voice and give a grin then chuckle) AS THEY SHOULD LAUGH TOO. That's if you feel risky! Good starter line, but probably will result in what I said earlier...some friends use others as brick walls, but when you are using those brick walls to scale on, that totally changes up the game.

PM me later if you want some more in depth advice on ANY AND ALL SITUATIONS! Catch up with you later I hope.

Two natural ways you can try can be:

* When she is leaving the group to visit the bathroom, you join her with the excuse that you have to go as well.
* Go to the bar to order a drink, and ask her if she wants to join you as company.

You can also try to isolate her without leaving the group. It all depends on how you are positioned. If you are sitting next to each other, you can just turn towards each other and "forget" the others. It works if you have built deep rapport and she is really into you. The world around you two fades away. The same should work if you are facing each other and sitting at the edge of a table, but is harder since the group can interfere anytime.

If you are standing things are a lot easier. You can just take her hand and say "let's go over there" as if you have just seen something interesting. You can also do a lock in - a perfect way to minimize distractions.

http://www.pualingo.com/locking-in/

My favorite line..

I walk over to the group make eye contact with everyone except the girl I want and say " Hey guys, you mind if I borrow her for a minute " - while motioning for the hand of the girl I want.

Its not 100% but it works for sure.

_________________
Need Coaching? For 1 on 1 Coaching via SPAM, Phone or Instant Messenger - Email: EddieFews@Gmail.com

Show Support, Buy The Book: 'The Secret Laws Of Social Wisdom - Click Here

http://www.EddieFews.com

After you'e initiated the group and have begun to build report with her, you reach out, grab her hand, and lead her to where you want. If she resists, you give an explanation "I need another drink tag along", "It's quieter over there" "blah blah blah". If she still resists, act like it never happened, build more report, gain more interest, try again in ten minutes.

This is assuming you are talking about in a club of course.

Thanks for your detailed reply man. i like the funny tactic you've mentioned. I'd give it a go next time. I don't mind taking risk while talking to girls. I like self amusing to make pick up less boring. i understand what you've said. you mentioned it'd better to talk to everyone in the group. sometimes girls are so easily distracted. it is a bit hard for me to predict their responses. if i spend too much attention on the target's friends, the target would think i am not interested.

it happens to me for so many times. i open a 2-3 set and the conversation doesn't go anywhere. it's easier when i have a wingman.

i like the second tactic. inviting her to go to the bar with me would be a nice method. i agree with you. when the target is really into me, people surrounding us seem like they don't exist at all. i like lock in. putting my arm around the target's waist definitely increases the girl's buying temperature

yea it is important to win over her friends. it's kinda like a neg when you are giving eye contact to everyone except to girl. i will give it a try

thanks. yea sometimes girls don't comply with our requests. it's a form of shit test. acting like nothing happened with confidence is the best way to pass shit tests. i like the part that you've mentioned about grabbing her hand. it's alpha and it's a good kino escalation.