Intro: Through my Freshman to Junior year, i was a hardcore computer gamer and extremely beta. It was taking my life away and i was extremely unhappy, so during this year, my Senior year, i decided to make a huge changed, and i am so deeply happy that i did. That is when i quit the computer games, and slowly left my old "gaming" friend group, and moved on to the real game, the PUA game

Antidote - During this year, i have been slowly making interactions with each of these girls. Any of these past years, i honestly could never of imagined my self doing this, and i am so happy that i am now able to.

I'll keep it quick, because i know people will be more likely to answer when these are short

Out of the girls, as my title states, there is one i have recently been talking to that is just honestly drop dead gorgeous, an 11/10 and from the talks we had, she seems sweet also.

STORY TIME - IF YOU ARE AT THIS POINT... THANK YOU . I wont do an all out dialogue because i know those can get boring.

FIRST TIME I MET HER: - I saw her walking from class, did a opinion opener about a girl and a guy. She bit, and gave her advice. I then saw he at the end of the day and said "She saved a my friends relationship." Had some small talk and left. (I call her my friends therapist from time to time now)

2 days later

SECOND TIME - We were both late to class and everyone was gone except us, she was rushing to class, and i saw her and i said "Hey you are my friends therapist right" and she said yea, and i told her that she seemed cool and that we should exchange numbers. She said to hurry as she was walking quickly to class and i got her number.

6 days later

THIRD TIME -

I saw her walking alone, and i started walking over to her. I went in with another opinion opener. We had a short 3 min conversation, then i hugged her bye.

6 days later

THE CALL

I called her on he phone, she didn't have my number
ME: Hey HB
Her: Hey who's this
Me: "Zeru"
Her: Which one
Me: The Freinds Therapist One
He: Ohhhhh, hey

Then i had a entertaining 2 min conversation with her, kept it interesting. Then after 2 mins said, alright gota go bye.

and she said bye

For anyone who made it through this, i am still new and would love some advice on where to go next with this or critism. I am always wanting to learn. Thank you

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My most helpful mentors:
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Eddie Fews
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It's great that you're doing all these opinion openers, but if you want this girl, I don't think you're making your intentions clear. From what I read (I read the whole thing btw) it seems more like your treating her more as a friend then anything else. Try building more attraction and qualification. Also don't get oneitis with this one girl. Talk to other girls from other schools. You'll never know what you'll find. Good luck broski!

Totally agree with FootballPUA. You arent escalating and reading between the lines your being pretty dry. Having the guts to approach is great though and good number close. You should work on dropping her a text something cheeky and tease her a little. You dont want to be landed in the friendzone also i would change her name from 'my friends therapist'. I normally go with something like 'tiny' because you can say 'awww your so tiny and cute' most girls are like guys and see being called cute as a friendzone kind of thing from my experience and they normally want more validation and qualify themselves to you.

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Yeah, it'll be 2017 by the time you get her on a date... She likely just thinks you're a buddy at this point because you've had too may 'encounters' with her and nothing has come from them.

Kino, mate... Next time you see her touch her elbow or something, or high five her - something innocuous and easy for beginners.

When you do escalate and ask her out (which you need to do if you want this to happen) don't say the word 'date' - don't say the words 'girlfriend' or 'sex'... Do not tell her you like her. Do not tell her you want her to be your girlfriend. <<<< RE-READ this paragraph until you can repeat it without looking at it. Seriously.

If you don't make it a big deal, and just make it as casual as possible, that's your best bet... IE: You're grabbing a beer after school today and she should join you... Take her somewhere fun, be a cheeky son of a bitch and make her laugh... AND ESCALATE. Lots of kino. Kiss her after.

That was an eye opener reading your guys replies. One of my challenges is pushing my boundaries and escalation, and you guys hit it so dead on. If I keep acting how I am, I am definitely going to be friendzoned, thank you for the realization!

_________________
"There is no failure. Only feedback." ~Robert Allen

My most helpful mentors:
Much thanks too;
Eddie Fews
PEBBLE
R.C.