Hey I know this girl for quite a while. She is an artist and does paintings.

Next week there will be some art painting competition in my town so I wanted to invite her to go there. I suppose she will like it.

However I don't want to do it the boring way like "Hey there is an art competition next week, lets go there" . Thats too not playful.

So I would appreciate some ideas for a cool way to invite her. Something playfully challenging and that keeps attraction going.

Thanks in advance.

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Something simple escalate the convo before hand then hit her with 'Awww i noticed theres and art competition in my town next week, your into art are you not ?' she'll qualify with 'yeah i love art or something' then tell her 'cool maybe we should attend and i can teach you how to use crayons?' something teasing

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Whats the relationship man? How do you know her? How many times have you spoke to her? Do you have her number? Is this some Facebook thing? etc.

I need more details to provide you with an accurate response. But I can tell you that if you're looking on internet forums about how to ask a girl on a date; you're already swimming up stream. These things do not have to be so complicated.

If theres no rapport or relationship with this girl then that has to first be built before you can ask her out. Safety is in the top 3 things of importance to a woman. She's not just going out with a guy who hasn't at least built some level of rapport. Even if its 5 mins of talking in person.

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Well I know her for years. We are "friends"... so far. I have her number. We haven't seen each other for a long time and this kind of made us more distant but few weeks ago she got back from abroad and we went out. I did some teasing, some banter etc.

Last interaction was some teasing over text a week ago, but eventually either I over did it or she was somehow getting it wrong, since she got a little upset at the end. (nothing serious thought - here is the chat about that actually).

The truth is she was just a friend for me before, but now I look her with a different eyes. (perhaps because her boobs got bigger )

She told me that now when she is back from abroad she wants to socialize more and meet new people etc.

I wanted to make that a little playful/ attraction oriented.

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I think you're doing far too much pushing and no where near enough pulling. She's pulling and you're still pushing I don't understand that. Be nicer. Be funny, flirty, confidence, sexual, and nice. It works a lot better. Guys get the cocky thing wrong far too often..

Just call her on the phone and ask her out man.

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I got your point. ( i guess you've read the chat from the linked post).

*note: i dont have problem calling her i just want to make not over cocky but not over plain either. Sort of looking for ideal balance.

So what would be your bet for some flirty, sexual, confident and nice invitation sentence.


thank for advice anyway

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