im 17
i leave for college next week

hot woman from across the lake has rich dead husband, husband has been dead for 4 months or so (since late march)
shes pretty hot, about 48, but obviously in really good shape. straight milf. She donated to my charity a lot (she has millions), and even my dad noticed she took a liking to me. I had a big event in my backyard for the charity, everyone made donations, she said come over the next day and get it. That's when i texted her and did, 2 weeks ago. I went over to pick up a check and she says "come over some time for a tour of the house, after i said i was leaving in 20 minutes for vacation (true, just got back)

got back from vacation. The tour is an in to her. how do I start the conversation? if i say, "whenever works for you" and she shows me the house when it's empty, thats a good sign right? then I can offer to maybe help with some yard work?

i just know ill kick myself if i leave before trying to game the hot widow rich milf who's a 5 minute boatride from my house.

Sounds like she's doing all the work for you. Most cougars will. She wants to lead. Just agree to a time to go over. Don't offer yard work. That won't help anything. That's something that happens in rom coms and romance novels, not real life.

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