Ok so I've had a friend for a few years, met her brother 2 years ago once at a party. Got on with him, added him on FB, never spoke again.

Went out with my friend (his sister) on Friday, his ex girlfriend was there (with who he has 3 kids from like 5-10 years old), don't know how long they've been split up, later found out they're off and on. Made out with and felt up the woman, was gonna go back to hers but some LMR. She texted me saying she should have let me continue and we texted dirty all weekend and were going to meet today after work except she cancelled at last min. Said she was sat with him and couldn't get free, he wanted to reconcile with her, yadda yadda. She told him about me for some weird reason and he remembers me and I was cool. Anyway, I try and rearrange my meeting her to tomorrow and she said she's got salsa or something at 7 but will let me know if she blows it off.

Him
If i ever see you im going to stab you in the neck and piss all over you ive done it before

Me
Get a life you fucking idiot

Him
Leary little shit arent you see you soon

Me
Because I was going to see a woman I heard you were broken up with?

Him
Well were together so fuck off

Me
I don't care enough with all this drama. You should calm the fuck down though



I probably shouldn't have written back the aggressive messages but it's done now. The girl messaged me saying she's really sorry and i messaged his sister (my friend) and showed her it all. She was shocked and messaged him, called me and apologised and said I shouldn't get involved. Is it enough for me to just leave it now... ?

Drama mamma.

Toil elsewhere, nothing to see here.

Keep the texts, for sure - incase it ever does escalate... You'll get a restraining order no problem with those.

Really though, if they're on-again-off-again, his jealousy is understandable (though he went about it in a really shitty way).

I'd move on. Why even get involved?

dude I'm gonna tell you from personal experience move the fuck on right now and don't look back you'll be happy you did. This shit happened to me only thing is the ex actually had a knife and fully intended on using it in one way or another on me thankfully I know how to fight and left him in a crumpled heap before he got the chance. I walked away and never looked back. Plus why on earth would you want to be with a girl who's on again off again with a guy who's jealousy is so bad he comes off as a homicidal lunatic?

Do as you see fit, but also remember I'm not giving what I think is good advice I'm speaking from personal experience.