Is a man's age a huge factor, and affect, in game? I'm only 25, but I find this is a sticking point with me, as I progressively get older, and I generally am into younger girls, on average, 19-21. I live in Ontario, Canada and the women I meet an interact with here always have a HUGE stigma on the age of men. The majority claim it weird to even flirt with a man 3+ years older. It seems to be brought up on a regular basis when talking to women. So some feedback on this topic would be great. Personal experiences would be great as well Hopefully it's just another insecurity I need to get over.

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It's all in a state of mind. Be the bigger man, and you can never lose.

I don't know whether mentality about age differs geographically, but I don't think it does, I believe the attitudes are just about the same everywhere. I live in Sweden myself, and IMO it gets easier the older you get (with girls of all ages). There will always be this mix of girls, some who will be attracted to you and some who won't.

You probably know that as you want to get better at pickup, the more of an alpha male you want to be. But did you know that one alpha male trait is - believe it or not - gray hair!? So don't you worry about your age. You still have the best part of your life in front of you, the years between 30 and 40.

You may want to start by understanding that most of what women say is just fluff talk revolving around the feelings they have in the moment. Also when you understand seduction you understand that seducing a woman is all about changing her paradigm and bringing her into your world. And the only way to do this is to be completely confident in your ability.

A woman is going to like the things about you that you like about yourself. She is also going to hate the things about you that you hate about yourself.

So if you like your age and are confident about it; it won't matter when it comes to seduction. An age is a superficial detail and means nothing when you're charming them up. I've dated women younger and 10+ years older and they each "thought" they would never date a guy my age.

Age is irrelevant. Don't look for a chicks opinion to lead you on how you should interact with her.

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It's all in a state of mind. Be the bigger man, and you can never lose.

Doesn't really matter. The only time I ever see an issue with it is occasionally online dating with like, 18 or 19 year olds.

In "field", as long as you don't look ancient, you're fine. I look 21 or 22 (I'm nearly 29) and I sleep with 19 year olds and early 20 somethings all the time. The last two girls I slept with were 18 and 20 respectively. I have a date with a girl I think is 21 or 22 tomorrow. In fact, except for a 29 year old I dated (potential marriage material - surgeon), I've exclusively dated 25 or under since like, July of last year, with zero issues.

Where are you in Ontario? I live in Ann Arbor (and lived in Detroit) and I've pimped in Windsor before, and never had any problems at all. It's really nice because of the 19 year old drinking age. I used to let age be a hang-up of mine too, but you really can't.

The girls literally don't care. Are you turning her on currently? Then oh my god, shockingly, she's suddenly into older guys. Is she turned off by you? Then, shockingly, she isn't into guys "your age".

None of it matters, they don't know their own attraction triggers - that's your job.

Girls also say that they like nice guys, but we all know this isn't true...
Believe me, age doesn't matter...

I'm reaching 30, but my game is getting better and the girls I hook up with are generally still around 20-24 years old.

I also have shaved my head completely because I am now balding so, technically it should be harder for me but not true, I still feel gorgeous.

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As far as I can tell, for the vast majority of girls, anything from about her age or a year younger, up to about 30 or 35 (depending on appearance, wealth, physical fitness, etc) is usually acceptable. If you really keep yourself up, you shouldn't have a problem finding girls even until you're 45, though as you get increasingly older, you'll find that the girls who go after you are the ones who are into much older men (which is actually a decent-sized demographic. I have a 19 year old FWB right now who is raving about how excited she'll be when I get gray hair).

Much like for a man, our age or a year older is usually the cut-off, and we'll go down to 18 on average (or whatever your jurisdiction's limit is).

All the fluff about having to "date your age", or "older guys are creepy" is bullshit. That's usually based on creepy older men who are visibly older, and have nothing to offer/nothing of value in their lives. A 20 year old with no resources can still be sexy.

A 45 year old with no resources signals complete loser to the average girl (and average man, to be honest).